5 years ago my husband randomly changed and became a different person. This happened after my stepson moved in wth us and was diagnosed with high functioning autism. "Dear Husband" And I use that term loosely, Started mimickinghis autism related behaviors. Suddenly my husband started forgetting everything, weather was taking shoes off when he came in the house, to plans that we had. Everythings become an argument he has the retention of a gnat. Months before SS moved in with us DH was laid off. Since then he hasnt worked for more than a cumulative 9 month period. His last gig he quit after 3 months because his boss was a hard ass that screamed cursed and betrayed all the managers. Now Maybe he was entitled to quit, all her managers quit on the same day and she hasn't kept an employee for longer than 6 months. Call me crazy but you find a new job BEFORE you tell her where she can shove it! This is only the tip of our problems. My company was bought out and I was laid off at 8 months pregnant so our only source of income is my tiny tiny unemployment check which is already the states Max amount of 275 per week. DH is so ungrateful of everything I do an have done to keep this family on its feet. Everything I do is criticized. I am always told what could have been changed to make dinner better, last time I checked his cooking ability was limited to picking up a phone. Yesterday Iowa's charged with making 50 caramel and cansy apples for a school festival that HE volunteered for. All he had to do is go get cellophane and ribbion. To late I realized he came home with plastic wrap. I had an hour to be ready to go with the apples. So I used the wrap. He walks in saying "I can't sell those they're terrible ". Umm how about do it you're damn self! At the festival a clearly uneducated woman tells me if front of him that plastic wrap and cellophane are the same thing after I apologized saying sorry he couldn't find cellophane . I said no cellophane doesn't tear, cellophane is the same thing Easter baskets are wrapped in at Walmart. She says no they're not your apology, of course he's loving that even though they're both wrong and continues to act high and mighty all night long. He threw a connection when my DS And I got home From a haunted house Late last night Because he complained about the soda that I bought And said I didn't get any coke. Yea I did its nit my problem that you chug a 2 liter a day. He throws the Wii remote and says "I am going to bed I hate you're voice". F U buddy last time I checked you've done NOTHING for this family in 5 years!