I was going to write exactly this post earlier! I keep deleting my blogs as I get paranoid, but the incredible support, awesome ideas and suggestions, and general feeling of not being alone, has saved my sanity, and has undoubtedly saved my relationship with FDH. sometimes when we're struggling on what to do for the best I'm certain situations, he asks me to post here, even HE values everyones opinions here! (he doesn't know my username btw, I just read stuff out and we discuss it lol!) thankyou everyone, you're all amazing