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whichwhich's picture

Submitted by whichwhich on Mon, 07/15/2013 - 10:32pm

I am falling in love with someone else. I have been with bf for 6 years now. I have had enough. For the past two years we have been a little rocky. Now days it seems like every day is worse than the previous one. The worst part is that I have fallen in love with someone else. I love my current ss and I really like new guys son and daughter... I havn't been able to get to know them on a step motherish level yet but they are amazing kids. Things are complicated in every aspect and I need to vent and hopefully get advice. Not sure if this is the place, so let me know if you would like the entire story

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Submitted by realitycheckmom on Mon, 07/15/2013 - 10:36pm

Are you effing serious? What kind of a knob lets a woman who is living with another man in a long term relationship meet his kids and play SM to them or even act like she will become his wife and fill that role? I call CREW.

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Submitted by lil_lady on Mon, 07/15/2013 - 10:39pm

You do realize you are emotionally dragging along children in your inability to just be true to someone right?

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Submitted by BelleTolls on Mon, 07/15/2013 - 10:41pm

Leave the dude you're with now and stay away from the new dude's kids until you know for a fact you'll be a relatively permanent part of their lives.

And I'd LOVE to hear more of your story.

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Submitted by realitycheckmom on Mon, 07/15/2013 - 10:47pm

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Submitted by Starla on Mon, 07/15/2013 - 10:47pm

Go to your nearest sex store and purchase one of everything! They even have them squirting dildos down to machines that will pound every ounce of urge from your bones.

Or go for the new guy and gain a SD, that does the trick.. }:)

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Submitted by BSgoinon on Tue, 07/16/2013 - 9:10am

Do everyone a favor, break up with the current guy and STAY SINGLE for a very long time.

This is ridiculous.

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Submitted by overworkedmom on Tue, 07/16/2013 - 10:58am

What is with the cheating stories today??? Keep your legs crossed and figure your own issues out before you start dragging another man and more children down the drain with you!

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Submitted by whichwhich on Tue, 07/16/2013 - 8:19pm

For 1... I NEVER CHEATED. The only time I have even seen his kids is either when I was up there taking care of their animals, or when they pop into the store (where I work), or when my BF and I have been up there for a get together. I have never been "alone" with him. I am not dragging on any kids, and I sure as hell am not going to cheat on my Bf. Half of the reason I needed to tell my story was because I can't get it out of my mind. I can't decide if I should stay with BF or if I should leave and look for what I want. I have never played sm to his kids and they only know me as a family friend. You guys are so freaking judgmental. I gave you a very short version of the story and you all jumped to a conclusion. You have no idea what either relationship is like and you have no idea my reasoning.

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Submitted by whichwhich on Tue, 07/16/2013 - 9:02pm

LOL not directed at you at all. There have been many times that that has crossed my mind. New guy and I have both talked about how we cant decide what we should do... try to be happy with who we are with... or be the dreamer we are and try for the fairytale... We both want the fairytale and at the moment we are far from that. I really am not as horrible of person as my original post made me sound. If it was easy to write out I would but it isn't and that is why it is so hard for me to just get it out of my mind