FDH picks up SD7 this morning from GGBM where he is told that SD still has some homework to get finished so could he bring her back to GGBM on Sunday afternoon instead of bringing her to school on Monday morning. She will not give him the homework, and SD has been sent in yet another dress with no shorts, and no backpack, again. (BM has been doing this since halfway through the school year with the backpack)

FDH starts txting BM1:

FDH: How am I supposed to help her with her homework if I don't ever have her school stuff??

BM: She doesn't have homework, that's how. Lose the attitude please.

FDH: Well, GGBM told me I had to bring SD home early on Sunday because she has oh so much homework to do... And then she said she needed to work on flashcards, that I've never even seen.

BM: She was supposed to finish it yesterday so she could enjoy her weekend with you Grrr can you bring her home Sunday night so I can make sure it's done then?

FDH: I can get her homework done if I have it.

BM: Yeah right, that's was you said during the school year and you did half of what she was supposed to do!

FDH: During the school year she had a week to finish the packet given out on Fridays, they were 7 pages. I did 3 or 4 pages with her for you, I had her for two days and did half of the weeks homework.

BM: FDH, I never get anything back from your house, clothes, shoes, health insurance cards, nothing unless it's a fight. I am not sending over cards and workbooks that I have so that you can keep them. Plus didn't you say you had flashcards at your house? We work with her! The stuff doesn't go to school. My gram just explain it all to you. Sd wants to come home Sunday to do school work, let her.

FDH: You're right, your gram did explain the flashcards. I assumed the homework needed to be turned in at school, which is why I asked for them. If it's just stuff she's doing at home with you then I don't need them, sorry for the confusion.

BM: So I will see you Sunday night.

FDH: No, I will bring her to school Monday like I always do.

BM: She wants to come home to do her work, don't be a jerk FDH. She wants to come home, bring her home.

FDH: We have plans on Sunday, she's not asking to come home, your gram just suggested I bring her home.

BM: Bring her home after

FDH: Or, I can pick up the work today, it must be needed for school if you want her home so bad. I can come back and get it.

BM: Or you could not lie and say you have the cards at home. you are just being an asshat. She wants to come home and you don't let her, nice father you are. Making your child stay where she doesn't want to. bring her home Sunday.

He stopped responding after that. SD7 hasn't made one peep about wanting to go home, she usually doesn't. Since BM had a baby last month SD has actually said she enjoys 'having a break' when she's here. We're not planning on bringing SD home early unless she mentions it and I'm just going to hope that the 'homework' is just BM trying to make us do things. I really HOPE she won't actually screw up SD's summer school just to be a bitch to FDH.