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SD obssessed with my underwear?

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Submitted by porcelian-doll on Wed, 07/10/2013 - 2:25pm

DH made SD help me do the laundry because I'm getting to the point were bending over is uncomfortable no telling how I will be when I'm really fat and pregnant a few months from now . SD pulls out my thong undergarments and makes a gross face and tells me that pregnant women shouldn't wear thongs and that once you become a mom you need to dress like a mom. I just laughed it off. This morning she asked me if I'm wearing a thong and I told her my underwear are not her concern. She goes to DH complaining about how gross that is and we better not be doing it because its gross to do it with a baby in me. She asked DH if he would tell me to wear appropriate underwear and he goes " what she wears is fine with me" and he smiled my way.

Why does she even care what underwear I wear anyways. And if we are talking appropriate that 14 year old girls should not blow there boyfriends in a park and sass police officers. I'm just saying.

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Submitted by just.his.wife on Wed, 07/10/2013 - 2:29pm

Answer her with that the next time she brings up appropriate. "Hey my undies may be sexy... but at least I am not blowing strange boys in public!" See what her reaction is!

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Submitted by BSgoinon on Wed, 07/10/2013 - 3:35pm

Haha.

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Submitted by Willow2010 on Wed, 07/10/2013 - 2:30pm

and he goes " what she wears is fine with me" and he smiled my way.
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His first mistake!! He should have told her to mind her own business and not to talk about you like you are some type of slave and to not tell an adult what is and is not appropriate.

PS..How far along are you? I did not think you were very far along. Why are you having trouble bending? May want to find out. I did not start having trouble bending until I was well into my 8th month...

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Submitted by porcelian-doll on Wed, 07/10/2013 - 2:35pm

I'm 4 months and when I bend and stand up I feel lightheaded and sometimes I puke just from bending over plus I have been feeling discomfort in my abdominal area like extreme bloating. Why is this not normal?

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Submitted by Aeron on Wed, 07/10/2013 - 2:46pm

"Normal" and pregnancy are hard to have in the same sentence....

The lightheaded ness is because you're not used to the extra blood volume you're carrying, most likely and that's not unusual. And depending on your size, how you're carrying,where baby is sitting,the bloated feeling and discomfort is not unusual either.

Experiences in pregnancy vary So Much you having an incredibly different experience than someone else is nothing to worry about.

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Submitted by Sunflower1 on Wed, 07/10/2013 - 4:19pm

I was light headed a great deal, how's your blood pressure? Mine has always been very low and dropped even more when I was pregnant. Just meant I had to take care standing up and moving around.

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Submitted by step off already on Wed, 07/10/2013 - 2:35pm

Just use it as an opportunity to tell her that different underwear / undergarments are appropriate for different types of clothing. High wasted underwear go well with high wasted pants. Thongs are great for not showing panty lines. Just like different bras and colors go under different types of shirts. Maybe her mother didn't teach her this - or know any better.

She's fascinated with it because it is something new and alluring to her. THat's my guess. She's making it seem "dirty" because that's all she's been taught.

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Submitted by step off already on Wed, 07/10/2013 - 2:42pm

And from what I've read about the BM, I'm guessing she's not the classiest gal around, so SD may only have this one chance to learn about these things.

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Submitted by not2sureimsanea... on Wed, 07/10/2013 - 2:37pm

What the effing heck? Completely inappropriate things to be saying to anyone, let alone a pregnant woman. Your DH should be telling her to cool it because what you do with your body is none of her concern.

I agree wth ladyface, that deserved a stern talking to. My parents did not allow us to joke with adults, ever.

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Submitted by QueenBeau on Wed, 07/10/2013 - 3:05pm

"I agree wth ladyface, that deserved a stern talking to. My parents did not allow us to joke with adults, ever."

same here, especially not jokes that were making fun of the adult. I may have gotten away with a knock knock joke.

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Submitted by chokinonlemons2u on Wed, 07/10/2013 - 3:31pm

She need worry less about your panties and more about keeping boys out of hers!!! :O

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Submitted by BSgoinon on Wed, 07/10/2013 - 3:39pm

Ugh, this girl is the definition of inappropriate, and she is going to tell YOU what is appropriate for a mom to wear? I think I would have said "oh honey, you will be pregnant soon enough with the way you have been acting lately, feel free to throw out YOUR thong underwear when that happens, until then, keep your NOSE out of my panties and your MOUTH SHUT!".

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Submitted by oneoffour on Wed, 07/10/2013 - 4:21pm

Well if your DH allowed her to check out your underwear I would think she gets to comment. Although I would tell her with a growing belly thongs are more comfortable.

I would tell her "Mom clothes? Like your mom? Let me get back to you on that."
She is just trying to get involved in a rather clumsy way. At least she sees you AS a mother/mom.

But I like the blow Job retort as well }:)