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No! The incubator can't have our old couch!

overworkedmom's picture

Ok, so yesterday was the drama about the photo album that the incubator is making with SS filled with pictures of when "they were a family". And if you read my blogs I am the bad guy in the equation because I don't want that shit in my house.

We are buying a new home at the end of the month and the way that our living room is shaped our current couch just won't fit. Out new living room is really long and more narrow and our couch is the biggest sectional ever that is shaped likes square. Anyway, H (he has lost the darling) says "well what are we going to do with the sectional if we get new furniture?" I say "not give it to the incubator!" And he says "I would give it to her." :jawdrop:

I don't care if that dumb cunt (i never use that word!!) got a section 8 apartment. I don't care that she has no furniture in it! This couch will go in a dumpster before I ever let it over at her crap hole!

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Kendall's picture

She is not his responsibility. She is a grown woman. Furthermore, it should make him no never mind if she lives in a cardboard box. If he is using that tired line of, "I'm doing it for the kids," they can live with you and let her buy a bean bag chair.

overworkedmom's picture

He does live with us . She only has supervised visitation and is not allowed at her shanty apartment! Lol

Shook's picture

LOL@ Section8. Give it to her but have tons & tons of sex on it before you do. Makes you the good guy---but the evil good guy }:)

Shook's picture

LadyFace, how bout if it were really really messy sex on the couch? Like an oily silhouette. Or if there's any wooden trim, you could carve your initials OWM + DH 4VR }:)

Shook's picture

I agree. Lots of times too much pride is a bad thing. But c'mon BMs, have a little respect for yourselves. It looks pathetic trying to keep your wagons hitched to the man that left & remarried for goodness sakes.

overworkedmom's picture

I love it! Especially since my silhouette is about 1/3 of her! And the initials are a great idea!! Lmao

Cocoa's picture

why does he still feel responsible for his ex wife? i'd dig deeper and root it out. but i'm a bitch like that if i feel my dh feels anything akin to affection for his ex. if he does harbor it, he better hide it.

oneoffour's picture

I agree. I would ask him why he still feels obliged to support someone who caused him so much pain and continues to cross boundaries into his new marriage.

Now my ex and I get along fine. I would give him old furniture in a heartbeat. But if he was a piss arse he would be going without. DHs wife wanted a new dining set and offered DH their older one which was solid wood and in very good condition. I accepted it because we were looking for something better and although it isn't exactly my taste it was free and solid wood. What I really wanted would set us back a couple thou. BM never crosses boundaries and we don't hear from her for months at a time.

But giving a HUGE sectional to someone in Sect.8 housing? For a start how the h3ll will it fit in?

overworkedmom's picture

Lol I don't know if it would! I have no idea why he continues to do crap like this. I told him he was just being an enabler- just like everyone else. She is a "recovering" junkie who has never in her 33 years had a real job. But hey, let's give her a house and some furniture too!

WHY on earth did DH have drunk sex with this skank????

Anne Boleyn's picture

This reminds me of my moving box debacle in April. My boxes are in my attic and BM never got her lazy ass hands on them. We had major discussions about why he felt the need to help his ex when it was fine for me to run all over town a month after surgery to procure them for our move. Took a counselor for him to finally see why this is just plain wrong.