reading photo blog brought up a BM funny
8-9 years after BM and DH divorce BM moved into a new home. Dh was there one evening, BM was out he was watching SS. When he sat down he realized that their wedding album was a coffee table book! And she had framed photoes of him with the skids down her hallway.
She claimed it is the kids house and they need that.
I say she's warped. That phase is over though and I'm sure she burned those pics! However I sat and thought about what kind of message that actually sent the skids.
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I have our family pictures up
I have our family pictures up but FDH passed away. If I get to the point where I have another relationship and it progresses to him coming to my home then I will move the ones with FDH into DD's room. I may leave the one photo up of my entire family with FDH and SS because my entire family is in it and we have very few of those pictures. My youngest brother is stationed several thousand miles away and it's hard to get family pictures even when we plan them. Somehow at least one sib doesn't make it.
My dd had pics of her dad and
My dd had pics of her dad and SM family photos up in her room. My wedding photos were in her room on a bookshelf.
I could not imagine displaying our wedding album on a coffee table. Or have his picture on my family wall. They weren't old photos they were current for the time, snapshots of skids and dh at different functions
NO!!! Not happening here.
NO!!! Not happening here. That is way weird. Although at the moment my house looks like FDH lives here based on pictures and furnishings. I do not have his clothes hanging up. Those are packed in boxes and stored in the garage. After my divorce I packed all those pictures of my exh up. I didn't want them. I have no pics of the exh out at all. That part is crazy. Like I said FDH died so it's a little different. BM needs to move on.
Yeah, only happened once. .
Yeah, only happened once. :). He discovered the error of his ways and altered visitation place.
Yeah, only happened once. .
Yeah, only happened once. :). He discovered the error of his ways and altered visitation place.
Agreed. Thats vomit. She
Agreed. Thats vomit.
She sounds very lonely and i think it's very confusing for a child to be at their BM's and see mummy and daddy together in photos - especially in WEDDING PHOTO'S.
It reminds the child of what USED to be, and obviously what they would IDEALLY want is to have 'mummy and daddy back together'. Thats cruel, its like dangling a lollypop infront of a child and then snatching it back up and saying 'no, you can't have it'.
BM needs to move on and stop fking with their childs emotional well-being.
And i would have never ever let my DH go to BM house to babysitt. No way in hell. The thought is sickening.
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Hahaha sounds EXACTLY like
Hahaha sounds EXACTLY like B"M". Pathetically accurate. Don't even feel like going into detail right now lol