Bm called DH this morning. Shes mad because the only way she can keep ss into her is have his brothers around. Its a form of manipulation. Now that the director told BM that she can't bring the brother. BM is pissed off. I'm sure shes wondering how shes going to intertain ss for 2 hours. And BM not aloud to talk on her cell phone during that time. Not going to be easy for BM.

BM: DH would you please let ss come to BM mothers and visit? I don't live there and won't go over there. I just want them to have a relationship.

(Dh has never stopped ss from being around BM side of the family except when BM is screwing up, and now because DH no longer trust BM mother to not lie for BM. BM is very hard to handle when she doesn't get her way. BM will badger a person to death with words and phone calls. BM usally won't stop till she gets her way. People just give in to shut her up.)

DH: BM all you ever do is lie and manipulate people and I'm not falling for your lies anymore. No SS will not be going over there now that your out of jail. I don't trust you to not go over there.

(BM and her mother live in a different town so its not like we could just drop by. DH doesn't want to put SS in a spot where he has to lie for BM either. DH knows from the past that BM mother can't control BM and stop her from coming over. BM family never calls SS, never invisits SS over, has never bought SS anything for his birthday or Christmas. The only time SS goes over there is durning spring break at DH request and maybe 1 or 2 weekends durning the summer. Dh has invite BM family to ever birthday party and they have a open invation to come to our house if their in town. Its never happen. But BM exspects DH to do what she wants.

BM mother text DH: Dh would you please reconsider and let SS come over. (She said more but DH didn't tell me all of it so I'll read it when I get home.)

DH text BM Mother: No, But I want you to know that you and the family can come to my house any time you want to see SS your always welcome.

Will see how that goes.