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SD has been a horror for years. 27 years old, living off her father and I, not working full time - waiting to "figure out her career". Is a rude, entitled, selfish person. Just mean. She does absolutely nothing to help around the house, doesn't pay rent, doesn't even say hello when she comes in the house, buys ice cream puts it in my freezer and tells my 12 year old daughter not to touch it. Has contributed not even a bag of milk to the household. My husband - her natural father, never says anything to her. He feels sorry for her for some reason. I think she's just a freeloader takin a ride on the gravy train. She posted on facebook her dislike for me because I had the nerve to vacuum on a Saturday morning at 8:30. She was trying to sleep and I had the audacity to wake her up. Imagine, the maid not cleaning for her at a time more suitable to her schedule!!!! As a result, I confronted her and told her she had until May 1 to get another address. Its now two weeks away and everyone is feeling sorry for her because she is still not working and has no money. I say, let her go live with her mother - who lives two minutes from us. But she wouldn't get the free ride there. I am feeling pressure to extend the deadline.

Am I being too harsh. Should I let her stay longer. But I feel like that would just be another instance in which what I say or want doesn't matter. Any advice?