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My SS17 makes me uncomfortable

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Submitted by queenofice on Tue, 02/26/2013 - 8:40am

Hi I stumbled across this site. I took the time to read a few of your blogs and I think I got the hang of your lingo so here it goes.

I am a SM to 3 boys ages 9, 13, and 17. I am a BM to 2 girls ages 2, and 8.

My eldest SS makes me very uncomfortable. The way he looks at me sends chills down my spine. The other night when my DH and I were going out everyone told me how nice I looked. Except for SS17 who was eyeing me up and down and I think he even bit his lip. When we have family night he will sit by me and drape his arm over me and I flick it off. I have to go into the bathroom to change because I am always forgetting to lock my door and he makes me that uncomfortable. When it is time for them to go back to their BMs house they will all give me a hug and when it is SS17’s turn he will give me a lingering hug rubbing his hands slightly down my back. Sometimes he whispers in my ear "you smell tasty". My DH seems oblivious to his behavior and when I point it out he says don't worry he is just a touchy feely kid. I have found on his I pad internet history searches for "Stepmom porn".

Am I over reacting? Or is this just wrong? I'm sorry but this kid gives me the creeps.

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Submitted by queenofice on Tue, 02/26/2013 - 8:46am

Yes and he told me he was a boy once and it’s just a hormone thing that doesn't have to deal with me. And I have stopped hugging him when he comes for a hug I give him a quick pat on the back and jump backwards without letting him put his arms around me.

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Submitted by Crazy_in_Ohio on Tue, 02/26/2013 - 9:06am

If My SO said that kind of shit was ok, I'd be done with him and his creepy ass kids.

That's disturbing and you have every right to be creeped out and move away. No time alone with that kid and if your DH doesn't take you seriously, you might want to consider getting away.

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Submitted by RedWingsFan on Tue, 02/26/2013 - 9:09am

"You smell tasty"? Coming from your teenage stepson? I'd NEVER allow that kid to touch me again, I'd make sure the doors are locked when I use the bathroom or shower and I'd NEVER be alone with him again, NOT EVER.

Disgusting. And your DH is an idiot for not stepping up and defending you. This boy is seriously behaving horribly to you and you shouldn't have to take it.

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Submitted by queenofice on Tue, 02/26/2013 - 9:25am

your right. And I do keep my daughters away from him he is never alone with them. and eww "This kid is trying to make his porn dreams come to life". :sick: I don't want to think of that.