SD22 is seriously screwed up. She is a nice enough person but she has many issues. Most due to SO and BM's parenting but a lot due to BM is a shitty mother. She involved SD22 in most of her infidelities and SD22 knew way to much about the marital problems of her parents. Now SD22 is married going through a divorce and has a baby 10 mos. Since her split with the baby's father when she was pregnant she has lived with 2 different guys and is now pregnant with the 2nd guys baby.

Crazy right??? I was floored when she told us she was pregnant again :jawdrop: She basically said she had no where to go and didn't want to live with her mother so she shacked up with guy number 2. She had known him all of 2 weeks before she and the baby moved in with him. Then after a month she gets pregnant :O :O

Now because of her issues and the fact that she won't stop her mother from interfering in every step of her life guy #2 has kicked her out and she is pregnant with his child. Her life is one big stinking mess. And big surprise she wants to move in with us. :jawdrop: She is staying with her BM right now with the baby. Baby has been diagnosed with RSV has been sick for 3 months and she has him all over town here and there and BM smokes in the apartment they all live in and in front of the baby. Now my heart wants to take them in so the baby will have a stable place to live and hopefully get healthy. My brain knows this is not a solution but just asking for trouble. I am torn because of the baby and it is stressing me out. SO is very level headed about all of it and does not want them to move in. He knows that it will be hell on all of us but I am worried about the baby . I am just rambling but needed to get this out of my head.