2 hours till step rats arrive, 48 hours until they leave (rant/vent...dunno)
I remember once DH telling me "why don't you try playing with them, loving them"
why the hell should I put such time and effort into 2 kids that don't listen to me...don't respect me and think they're "we're cute so we can get away with murder" shit will fly with me... give me a fucking break.
These kids are 6&4. I understand 6&4 year olds will be loud and silly and do kid shit, but when the laughing turns into crying, or the giggles turn into fighting and bickering, get me the hell out!
I have disengaged SO much when they come over that it makes me sad cause I do miss my DH on those weekends, and also considering that I'm due to give birth to our first child together any time soon, it makes things harder.
Mind you, DH isn't truly a disney dad by any means, he does put the law down on them, but at the same time, he's soft on them becuase they're girls...I on ther other hand see right through that bullshit and he even admits that "they have me wrapped around their pinky"
well, good job on just enforcing their princess mentality that men like you will always be aroudn to take care of them...Just like BM can't take care of herself, makes around 60K+ a year, receives CS and lives at home with her parents, in an amazing house BTW.
When our daughter is born, this kid is going to be a stand up woman just like her good ol mom...not taking crap from anyone, independant, smart, classy, witty and most of all pumped full of positive!!
These 2 come from such a fucked up home, that I do feel sorry for them, but they just get on my damn nerves! A little more discpline would help them and therapy for the oldest as well..
so, as I shut down my computer to go home...2 hours till they arrive, 48 till they go home
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When our daughter is born,
When our daughter is born, this kid is going to be a stand up woman just like her good ol mom...not taking crap from anyone, independant, smart, classy, witty and most of all pumped full of positive!!
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EXACTLY! That's how my daughter is!!! And DH's daughter is 6 mos younger, but, yeah, we'll just say that she's HORRIFIC
Omg. That happens with my SD.
Omg. That happens with my SD. Her BM is horrible so everyone has babied and treated her like a piece of glass. She is eight and cries when her dad wont carry her because she's tired of walking and of course he carries her. And yeah its embarrassing because she is 8!!! It makes me upset because my kids are 3 & 5 and i do not put up with whining so she gets away with it and they dont. Grrrrrrrrrr.... just had to vent
6 and 4 are still little. And
6 and 4 are still little. And the cute crap will wear off after a while.
I have a big problem with your DH telling you to play with them and love them. I will get right on that "love' thing the minute I find the 'love' gene and hit the 'start' button. Why do people think because kids are little they are lovable? And now disrespectful it is to ASSUME your kids should be loved by whoever you choose. Not only is it unfair on you it is unfair on the kids. It sounds like "give Aunt Mary a hug!" Aunt MAry is a weird old lady who smells of stale sweat yet you are supposed to be affectionate with them?
This concept is more about your DH being comfortable than about you and your Skids being comfortable. When my DH said (and only 2x) 'You hate mt kids..." my response was ALWAYS 'No, I hate the loud video games and their laziness. They are actually probably quite nice. I will celebrate the day I see taht side of them..."
LOL!!! smells of stale
LOL!!! smells of stale sweat...made me smile!!
I have twin SD's 14 and let
I have twin SD's 14 and let me tell you-PRE MADONNA'S was what the mediator said they are! One is worse than the other. Both think they're entitled to whatever and whomever. PLEEEEASE!!!