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Sad and comical at the same time?

supawoman's picture

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I have read here a lot but am finally posting. I have been married to my husband for 10 years. He has a young adult daughter from a previous relationship. The mom has given us nothing but grief and hates me for living. She also believes I am jealous of her because she had a kid with my husband (her words). Never mind that she had the kid before I met him and that he & I now have multiple kids together. :jawdrop: She obviously needs to believe those things. SMH.

DH & her didn't talk often before his daughter became an adult and he doesn't talk to her at all now although she tries. His daughter is mine & his Facebook friend. The other day his daughter was tagged in a pic of my DH. I thought at first it was my DHS profile pic but then saw it was her moms profile. Is that strange? She has as her profile pic a pic of her married BD. lol. It is a pic from when his daughter was a baby. I recognized the pic because it hangs in our house. His daughter snapped a picture of it from her cell about 2 years ago. The daughter has it on FB but never made it her profile picture.

My best friend says its disrespectful but I think it is sad and comical. It is sad that she obviously can't let go after all these years. They haven't been together since the daughter was a toddler. It is comical that she is still trying to cause drama. She wants a response from one of us but I refuse to acknowledge it. DH hasn't either. We can't stop her from making her profile whatever she wants it to be. But it is just sad and amusing.

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supawoman's picture

The profile pic was of my husband. The pic was taken when my SD was a baby. It wouldnt be weird if the mom had a pjc I f her daughter. But when the pic is of her baby daddy (ex-boyfriend) when the relationship was overs ago, it does make me scratch mt head. I have never made a pic of my husband my profile pic and I am married to him. The closest thing to that I have done is to make our wedding photo my profile pic on our anniversary.

Unfreakingreal's picture

I am just waiting for the moment when BM does something like this. I have already found photos of DH & BM in SD12s ipod. Which must be BM giving them to her. She hasn't been able to let go of my DH. She is obsessed and in a really creepy way.