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Submitted by crystalclear on Sun, 12/02/2012 - 11:02am

I have decided I really need a txt buddy. Being a SAHM sometimes has large draw backs like no friends. I moved to Sacramento CA about a year ago and only have 1 friend out here. Its so hard to find friends that are not drug addicts and want to teach their children morals. I would love to stay on here but my husband gets pissed when he sees me on here and its so hard to post on the phone Sad
I really feel like I'm in Elementry school saying this.... would anyone like to be my friend LOL

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Submitted by ca7439 on Sun, 12/02/2012 - 11:16am

me too, me too. But I'm in Uk. don't know if international friend is an option? Email???
I am a sahm too with 3 kids plus 2 skids
x

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Submitted by crystalclear on Sun, 12/02/2012 - 11:19am

I'm not sure if I can txt someone internationaly? I've never known anyone out of the USA lol

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Submitted by crystalclear on Sun, 12/02/2012 - 11:45am

Isn't that the truth! I sometimes wonder why we SP stay around. Is it the sex,money, love what because in the end this whole SP thing isn't what you think it would be LOL

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Submitted by z3girl on Sun, 12/02/2012 - 12:19pm

Yes, being a SAHM is very lonely!! Am I the only who's friends disappeared once they had children (before I did)? I have my childhood best friend one mile away, and once she had a baby, she completely disappeared. Rarely even answers emails. I figured once I moved closer, there would be little reason for her to be so distant. I now have 2 infant children, and I still have more available time than her. I don't get it!

I get out to the library and Gymboree classes with the babies, but so far nobody has been all that friendly. I think I actually know one woman by her first name rather than So-and-So's Mom!

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Submitted by crystalclear on Sun, 12/02/2012 - 12:54pm

So I guess whoever wants to be a txt buddy message me your name and number and I will txt you back Smile

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Submitted by Estrella1975 on Sun, 12/02/2012 - 1:03pm

I'm not a stay at home mom, but I work at home, and since my best friend since high school died far too young last year, I just haven't had the desire to open myself up to new friends. Everyone is so busy, and my one friend was really the hang-out friend I was most comfortable with. We had as much fun sitting at the kitchen table over coffee as we did setting up elaborate girls' nights.

Last night my SO was talking about his mum (who has passed) and her best friend staying up late on Christmas Eve drinking cocktails and wrapping presents till the wee hours, and it just floored me how similar and wonderful that is.

You need that and deserve that, so props to you for going for it! Wish you the best.