Hi everyone, so it's been a couple months since I moved out and I've still been lurking around the posts here, as the experience I had with my ex boyfriend and his son comes to mind often. I try to be over it but hold on to some resentment. 
 

anywho, the apartment I originally moved into wasn't a good fit, but I'm lucky I've found another one to move into. In the meantime, I'm staying with friends. However, I did swing by ex place now that the dust has kind of settled to see the cat and pick up something I left.  LO AND BEHOLD the stars aligned and ex received a notice from his sons NEW school about him skipping and failing class! Literally IN THE MOMENT I was there. Cue the excuses for the lazy a hole kid, oh, it's all a big conspiracy against him etc, his grandma died, they marked the absences wrong, blah blah blah.  

it kind of pissed me off cause it's liek damn. When is karma going to fall on this kid? But, especially after going through some of these posts I notice how these kinds of dads NEVER actually discipline their sons and expect anything from them. They use them as a coping mechanism for their own un healed trauma which is absolutely disgusting. I guess it will be a long term karma. 
 

so, just here updating y'all. I'm in a good place. Going home to see my 5 siblings after two years (I live in a foreign country) and just content to know that, although I had a hard time leaving this man, I left a lame arrogant AND ignorant douche bag, got rid of his sad excuse of a kid, will never have to think of his ex and her dumb ass family, and hopefully will move on to something else one day. Yeah, things still bother me, like, I wish they would experience karma for what they put me through, but  I'm lucky I have the gift of self awareness and introspection. They'll stay stunted for life. 
 

Wishing everyone a nice holiday and as much peace as can be had in your step lives .