All it said was "I love you and miss you. Hope all is well."

Still no apologies, admissions of wrongdoing. Just guilt tripping and "look at me being the bigger person."

Also notably absent is any mention of the kids - which is a far cry from when SD lived here and then any message would be asking about her.

Pretty sure it's just because there's a holiday coming up, and God forbid DH enjoy the holiday without them. If it's not about them or others are happy it must be ruined. Same as with YDS first birthday that needed to be downplayed and made to be about SD instead.