The Fairytale
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There once was a girl love struck
With a man, a kid, and a truck
At first I was thrilled
What a life we would build
But this wasn’t quite my luck
A family i thought i would get
Not realizing i was a threat
To a bm that thought “maybe”
So she showed her true crazy
As soon as the two of us met
You see ss liked me just fine
But bm didn’t like splitting her time
Try tho’ i may
It got harder each day
Bm was torching the bridge the whole time
Now ss and I are estranged
Her need to be “mom” purely vain
She thinks that she’s won
But there’s no respect from her son
And I am not there to be blamed
Vowing today and everyday hereafter
To fill my life with love and laughter
It’s time to move on
The fairytale gone
Cheers to happily ever after ✨
Have you left DH too as it
Have you left DH too as it would seem (from reading you older posts) that he's the main problem in your life?
It would seem
not. As the previous post was about DH being a "good man".
No...
It truly seems as tho' when you disengage it does work! Of course we had our moments of disilluisionment but I am 100% aware of what is on my side of the street and what is on his. I also am aware that I am not responsible for cleaning OR helping to clean, his side of the street. Now that ss is not around dh is focused purely on his individual relationship with his son and not so much into the blended family fantasy that we were both trying to buy into. This has worked for us atleast.
I'm glad it's working for you
I'm glad it's working for you but what's to stop those unreasonable expectations/demands on your DH's side if SS comes back into your life again?