If anyone wants a quick laugh...
SO texted BM about vacation and to let her know skids want the vaccine.
SO started with vacation and BM's response was....... "I can't travel like that unless I win the lottery.." Interesting BM because YOU DONT SUPPORT YOUR 3 KIDS IN ANYWAY!! Prettt much never have!! She made it sound like we were taking a trip around the world. Also, the amount she got in stimulus (between her and her husband and the 2skids she claimed) was what our vacation cost. And SO doesn't get anything because of his salary. Maybe stop spending all your money on yourself and save....... it's funny how those things work. I'll add too she was always terrible with money. Hair and nails are always done but, SO would come home to utilities being shut off. "We didn't have the money." She would claim.
I said to SO she won the lotto by procreating with you...
On to vaccine part.. she was trying to make convo with SO with all like what do you think? I'm not sure blah blah blah. Trying to get him to go back and forth with her. He said he stuck to the topic and that the skids want it etc.
I can't wait until she is non factor at all. I did say to SO that will be funny when we are on vacation and BM will see some pics on Facebook (SO's friends wife is still friends with BM on there) and another family that is also is going on this trip is the lawyer SO used against BM. She is very good friends with SOs friends wife.
I am sure BM will be jealous! Karma :)
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Hair and Nails
I know a few of those people from work. Hair and nails, always done. Clothes are the latest and greatest. Designer shoes, bags. And are always running around claiming they are broke. Go figure.
I'll add in the 25k
I'll add in the 25k motorcycle, excessive amounts of Harley gear, lots of trips up north I'm assuming... but, can't travel to an all inclusive unless she wins the lotto...... right. Or maybe you spend your money differently.... I can't sometimes.
Lotto
YEP. Toxic Troll cant seem to find another lotto ticket since she blazed through her winnings with DH.
And Toxic Troll actually managed to spend a little of the stimulus $$ on Munchkin. Since with child support it totaled 2,000 (half child tax credit 1,000 + half child stimulus 700 + child support 347) in one month.
Munchkin got a hair trim, 2 bras and 2 shorts, and a pair of shoes from walmart.
I am so looking forward to being able to block TT. She is getting less and less relevant each day so Im thankful for THAT.
BM just took SD Sunday (which
BM just took SD Sunday (which I was surprised about considering it was a weekend) after 4 weeks to get those nails filled in... Nails and home that was it. MOTY award type stuff. *inser eye roll* The nails will fizzle out eventually though.
Yes Clove... we are both coming close. The light at the end of the tunnel.
3 years and 2 months!
But we must not forget the milestones on the way...
Once Munchkin SD14almost15 starts driving, I am hoping the contact needs decrease. ALthough I suspect the drama could increase...
I think once SD14 (Friday)
I think once SD14 (Friday) starts driving that will be the end of BM coming to our house ever again. Their main reason for communication now was mainly always SS17 and his school drama etc. Now that he is graduating and turning 18 in the summer there will be very little they will need to discuss.
I thought when the boys got their permits she would be over all the time taking them driving... I was wrong.. not once did she take them. Honestly, happy about that though. Didn't have to see the driveway hugs and kissss from mommy.
Driveway
yeah, the drop off hugsnkisses always bugged me too. And on the doorstep. One time Toxic Troll busted into our house because she had to park a few cars down, and couldnt see her 11 yo walk to our door. We live in a quiet neighborhood and this was at 6:3 am.
No more Toxic Troll for now as DH and I always do drop offs and pickups because TT=lazy a$$ syndrom.
Psycho would use a lot of
Psycho would use a lot of this too. Her hair was always beign dyed, maincures, nice clothes, random video games and stuff, she would go on vacations but "didn't have the money to pay CS" or she b*****ed to my ex at one point becuase she "only couldn't see the skids becuase she didn't have gas money!"
They have money for what they want to have money for. She just probs sucks at money management...
I hope your trip is amazing!!! :) have fun! Don't give a second thought to BM!
ETA: also was a drug addict. So money going there.
Right she uses her money on
Right she uses her money on her... that's it. They don't see anything wrong with it either because they are so self centered.
Thanks!! It should be a blast! It's not till November but, something to look forward too!
We don't have a clue where
We don't have a clue where BMs money goes, outside of not really to the kids. She's got nothing to show for it.
Lots of passive aggressive comments about anything we do. "Must be nice" type of crap.
Y'know, it IS nice.
I don't want to give her too much credit, since it's purely by accident, but it's those rare times her assumptions are actually on point.
Every year when we tell her
Every year when we tell her about our vacations it's the same responses... must be nice type stuff. You are right: it is nice!! Haha
Sour Grapes story
In the beginning of our relationship I was ahem under employed.
NOW, I am fully employed and making great money. Toxic Troll BM is unemployed almost 3 years now.
SHE made a comment about us being out at a nice restaurant (via instagram seen by SD22) and DH was happy to brag "well you know, if my wife wants to take me out on a date to a nice place Im not gooing to say no!"
LOLOLOL. Shut them both up, especially since I later gave SD22 Feral Forger holy heck about negative comments, because earlier I had sent a birthday gift and done her taxes for free and got her back a bunch of cash. flipped the script and played poor me victim.
When things were still "cool"
When things were still "cool" in 2017 BM wanted to switch weekends because she was going to a motorcycle thing on her on weekend. SO always agreed to "switching" weekends aka they just stayed and never actually switched..
SO was like oh yeah (6 months before we were going but had booked everything already) and by the way... missk is taking me to Italy. LOLLL she's was like ugh must be nice. That's when the jealousy really started coming out with her. It wasn't fully funded by me either (don't want people to think SO uses me haha) but, I booked everything and we stayed a few nights with my cousin who was stationed there.
It's just the comments when you don't contribute a penny and live a childfree life that makes no sense to me. Like how can you NOT afford these things? LOL
Haha BM once said on the
Haha BM once said on the stand in court, "DH lets Felicity stay home with their daughter. Must be nice!" It was absurd because at the time I had just been laid off from a job that required 80% travel that I'd had for 5 years. And we had just started our business, so while I was 'at home' I was also working 24/7. AND, from the time they were married until this very day, the only job BM has had is a work from home job that she does for 25 hours a week. It was obvious she was just jealous of our income. DH's attorney corrected that really quick.
I wish he would get child
I wish he would get child support from her. Maybe she'd skip town entirely.
Well.. there were talks that
Well.. there were talks that she was going to be moving out of state like 3/4 years ago. She brought up to the skids. Never happened but, maybe still in the works?
She would be around 3-5 hours away. It would be great if that happened.
Must be in the HCBM handbook...cry poor....but got nails n hair
Beaver always cries poor.....but she has a job and was getting over 1K a month for GWR and SD, and that were here 50 percent of the time. So she was getting 1K to take care of the kids 2 weeks out of the month.
Beaver is always broke. Can't afford a vacation, can't afford house, (she has a condo), can't afford a brand new car (she has to buy used) can't afford to get the kids clothes, sundaries or anything really. Anything she buys SD is always a "present" for a holiday or her birthday.
However, Beaver always has her nails done and her hair done and according to SD buys fresh flowers for the house every other day. Has the lastest phone new clothes (even though with new clothes she looks like a bag lady), all the new makeup fads and gadets, a member ship to the local massage chain, eats out every day, visits Starbucks at least once a day but more like twice aday. You get the picture....
SD asked me one time why I don't get my nails done...uh yea the $100 bucks to start with plus fill ins every month..yea no. I can find other stuff to spend my money on..like paying off my mortgage, debts, a vacation. SD also asked why we don't get Starbucks all the time, etc. Once again...I like to spend my money on things that I will have for awhile. The only thing I splurge on is my hair..and yea that is getting done every 5 weeks. I do have a minor shoe habit that I have curtailed in recent years..but I still can't resist a cool pair of cons...but everyone has their vice..and I CAN AFFORD it. Dh collects bourbon and whiskey...but he can afford to.
So..now DH and I don't have any car payments (we own 4...my beast (its a truck), DH' car, DD's car and DS's car) our house will be paid off in 7 years, we owe nothing on credit cards and we just bought an investment property. Beaver on the other hand..last time in court is up to her eyeballs in credit card debt, school loan debt and car debt. She is going to be hurting when the CS gravy train leaves the station in three years.
so it must be in the HCBM handbook...get your nails and hair done and have all new stuff while crying poor to your kids so that they can feel bad and ask Dad for more money. After all that hair and nails are UBER important....food clothing shelter for kids..not so much.
Fresh flowers for the house
Fresh flowers for the house every other day LOLL. Ooohh I forgot to mention BM has (via SD) a ton of online subscriptions to clothes, make up, shoes. I think two Christmas's ago SD showed me a link to of clearance boots on the page that BM uses for shoes and told her to pick out a pair... SD was like yeah I don't like these... the girl wears vans that's it lol. BM has tried giving SD her used thigh high boots too.. SD is 5'11" she doesn't need heeled thigh high boots...
I am 5'8" if I were shorter I might have a shoe problem ;)
I spit out my coffee recently
when SD told me about Beaver's subscription at a a salon for eyelashes....fake eyelashes.
All tthe WTF,...and SD was like and this is why we can't afford anything at Beaver's. SD has to buy her own shampoo, etc at Beaver's because they are broke. Mind you SD has no job so how that works..I have no idea but I do know SD doesn't really show at Beaver's and looks like an oil slick on Beaver's week.
When DH was paying CS, BioHo
When DH was paying CS, BioHo was living the dream. Bi-weekly mani/pedis, dyed hair with frequent root touch-ups, $$$ clothing (the skids's clothes came from Wally world), family vacations. Once CS ended, 'Ho could no longer afford ANY of that. Her hair is back to its natural color, Spawn does her pedis (no more manicures), and her wardrobe is rarely updated. In fact, she wore the same oversized shirt to three graduations, three years in a row. As for the family vacations... they are much cheaper than the Disney cruise and others trips taken when DH was the vacation cash cow. *lol*
Since BM never did anything
Since BM never did anything with the skids when they would go there 4-6 nights a month and with the money SO was giving her.... I think she just blew that $650 on who knows what... She hasn't changed the way she operates just became an even bigger inactive parent.
Ya know, would go months without seeing them..
Those horrid excuses for
Those horrid excuses for mothers.... Grrrrrrrr.
Yeppp! It was never about
Yeppp! It was never about skids with BM all about control of her "Besstttttt Frienddd" aka SO while doing whatever the f she wanted. *mega eye roll* haha
Ha, DH was never BioHo's
Ha, DH was never BioHo's "Besstttttt Frienddd". He was her ATM. Period. 'Ho's bestest friends are the SDs! She has no other female friends - no surprise as she sees females as competition. However, 'Ho is currently on the outs with both SDs, so.... call the waaaaaaah-mbulance!
We couldn't take vacations,
We couldn't take vacations, purchase new furniture or vehicles, make updates to our house without being dragged back to court by Meth Mouth. In Meth Mouth's mind if we had money to do those things then by god we had money to support her drug habit.