The continuing Saga
Well the drama at SD work continues. Now her dad is invovled in calling human resources. SD boyfriend got fired for showing up late to work. He is a manager. This is the same guy who drinks so much that he blacks out, has a DWI and has had his car scratched by a ex-girlfriend. He was also sexually harassed by said ex-girlfriend. Anyhow, the girl who is the ex-girlfriend was seen getting into a car with a man, leaving, coming back and going back into work. Then the car leaves but comes back and the man is seen keying the managers car. The girl is on probabiton. Personally I think there is more to the story and I don't trust the manager. He seems nice but I don't think he's being honest. He comes over here where my SD offers him drinks (expensive tequilla and they finish the bottle) and a place to crash for the night. She also insists they are not dating but hey spend the night in my room and I"ll walk around in a bra.
So now DH is going to call Human Resources to register a complaint against the ex-girlfriend. She hasn't done anything to him. He doesn't even work in the same division. He's going off what his daughter and this manager have said. His daughter is uncomfortable hanging out with this girl but she wasn't uncomfortable until after the manager took a interest in her but admitted he had gone out with this other girl. Needless to say SD keeps threatening to work if this girl doesn't get fired and absolutely refuses to work under her. However, I'm not sure she can get another job as she got this because of her dad's connection to the company. The place she applied cold turkey to treated her rudely and she didn't get hired.
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Pathetic. SD is an adult and
Pathetic. SD is an adult and needs to handle this herself. Her dad can give advice but she needs to do the work or she will be an intolerable thorn in your side forever.
This all sounds so trashy.
This all sounds so trashy.
Holy Helicopter Parent. I
Holy Helicopter Parent. I hope HR tells him to bug off and hangs up. She's a grown-up, she needs to file her own complaints. He can't file on her behalf.
We had this, too
Back in the day when SD59 worked as a hairdresser, every time she left a job, there was some kind of upset. Often, BM would have to go in to pick up her scissors and whatever she had left. Two things going on: SD unable to get along with people and BM loving drama.
Sounds like you need to
Sounds like you need to bypass your H and tell SD she's not allowed to bring overnight guests into your home.
You can't force people to stop being trash, but you can have rules for your own household. I'd make SD so uncomfortable she'd find somewhere else to live.
I don't think you will ever
I don't think you will ever get the full story on any of this, and you probably are better off not knowing. But, DH really needs to step back. Going to HR complaining about someone with third hand knowledge is not wise.
I have no idea what actually happened, but the treated rudely when applying makes me wonder what SD did at the time (based on SD's other behavior).