Well, we had planned this vaca before we were married. We invited dhs 2 23yo dds to come (this was before I married him n found out how enmeshed and emotionally stunted they all are) so the dds invited 2 guy friends too. It's actually going swimmingly!

We are in another state staying at an air bnb. My oldest bio dd lives in town and on Monday we all fit into her vehicle for a 2 hour drive to see a glacier.

I was chatting it up with my 2 bio dds...my youngest flew in too...about their college degrees, my oldest is a social worker...my youngest is 19 going to college living on her own. Awesome talk. My oldest dd is married to an airforce officer and at age 25 they have a life. I don't take any credit for their successes, I thought kids striving for independence was normal.

It was quiet in the way back where sds were. The boys were even asking my girls questions and were very interested, etc.

We get home from the 4 hours of me praising my kids, lol, in the car. One sd stomps off and pouts in her room. The other told me that my daughters' success made her feel bad about herself (for being a loser in life)

My son in law, the airforce officer, was home from caribou hunting the next day and came over with my daughters to the air bnb. We all were eating dinner together...my ex was laying down in another room. The sd who has incest with her dad was whining about something at the dinner table. My son in law just snaped his head up, looking at her and said "loser!" And he went back to eating.

There was stunned silence and I was trying not to laugh!!! Felt soooo goood! (My son in law n dds don't know what sks have been putting me thru...he just saw it in her immediately n called her out on it!!!)

DH, who I found went on Zoosk dating site in June for a whole week according to his phone search history, especially hurtful that he was on there on Fathers Day after I felt sick from taking him and incest sd to dinner at the Melting Pot...and I went to bed. 

He refuses to admit he was on there, blah blah blah. Anyhow, he has been sick on this vaca, actually shiz his pants in public twice. Now that is sexy...barf.  I did tell his daughters about it in detail.

So I saw a post on here about when SO gets old and needs a caregiver. Guess who won't be wiping up his mess? Afterall, he willed all his assets to ex wife and sks. I am not bitter about that, I have my own money. It's just that when the time comes, we will have to use that 401k and maybe life insurance for his expensive 24 hour nursing care.

Just feels good.