According to SSs, there is tension in their house, because BM is not getting along with her SS (her DH's son). He is 18 and just graduated from HS. He is working, but only 16 hours a week. He spends the rest of his time in his room playing video games. Apparently, he and BM fight all the time and her DH is squarely in the middle. I can't help but feel a little schadenfreude at BM's suffering. When she and her DH first moved in together (before she and my DH were divorced), she used to post about her "three" sons (my two SSs and her SS) and would post about how much she loved her SS. Now, apparently, she finds him an annoyance and is mad that he doesn't pay rent, as she would like. My SSs have told DH that she wants to kick this SS out of the house...I'll be interested to see if that happens though, because I don't think he has any other place to go. According to BM, he does not see his mother, although I'm not sure if that's true, because BM is a notorious liar. I'll remember this when my SSs are 18 and she is demanding that DH support them.