Hi all...I have been torn about my decision to move in with my bf of just over a year because even tho (or perhaps BECAUSE) his little boy is only 5, I loathe him. Today I spent 3 hours looking for my keys & SS thinks he's cute by saying "oh they're on your bed" when he knew damn well that he had taken them & hidden them in his room! I'm experienced enough to know that this little s**t is looking for attention with this a**hole behavior but bf is clueless...(weekend dad guilt 'parenting') I think bf wants me to move  in here to help with that whiny, screaming, ungrateful punk kid. I allowed them to visit at the shore house 2 weeks ago & this turd wrote in INK on a beautiful oak kitchen table & I lost my security deposit! Bf is not a good dad. No discipline, folds when the brat whines & is only too happy to let me tend to all the household duties while his idiot kid watches an endless loop of YouTube videos. My current living situation is not good so bf acts like he's saving me but-excuse me-im already paying half the mortgage & he literally wouldn't make it here without me. I had to sleep on the couch all nite cuz the little harpie ran up & got in OUR bed before me and bf let's it happen. Should I run for the hills?