Anyone else get fuming at the fact that BM's seem to think that they can bark orders and demands at SO & expect to get what they want? Bearing in mind I myself worked 40 hours a week through the whole of lockdown, my husband runs his own business so stayed at home throughout with our daughter (full time obviously) and SKID 50% of the time (we dont usually have him 50% but as my husband was not working she demanded we had him more of the time). My husband and I are at work now, BM hasn't worked for 4 months due to COVID and wont be back at work until September might I add, but seems to think that we should be dropping everything at her demands to be a glorified babysitter and when SO refuses to, he gets called every obsenity and hes a **** Dad!  This woman has no work ethic, no ambition and just wants to palm her child off constantly to go drinking with her mates, that's absolutely fine, but what isn't fine is that we actually care about our business and trying to make a good future for our kids and simply cannot be driving here there and everywhere at her demand, we have a court order in place which states the visitation days.  I dont get what is so difficult to just adhere to that, why there has to be such nonsense and drama all of the time. The girl feeds off it.  She loves to upload their text message conversations to social media, claiming that she is so amicable, but SO isn't.  Surely people must see through this BS.

Just a thorn in SO's side, an absolute pest.