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Tiredmomma29's picture

We bit of background.been with partner for seven years he has daughter whos just turned seven.she was a month old when we met.he battled through court to get access and finally did when his daughter was one.From them ive been actively involved in her life. We have her every weekend which means giving up any form or social life.partner works mon to sat so i i have his daughter on Saturdays.

We have a baby of our own he will be near two soon.ive had terrible pnd since i had him and had very little support from partner.he never did a night feed etc. He has started doing more after a year of fighting.

Since January we have had his daughter full time due to bm mental health.i have up until the lockdown.did all the cleaning,cooking,school runs an hour every morn,bathtime, bedtime,ironing.i also work three days a week in a hospital but partner says he works six days a week so its my responsibility to do everything else.i had kids in routine but since lockdown its gone to shreds. Partner lets his daughter do anything even sit up late every night.her attitude and talk back is disgusting for a seven year old.shes teaching my son bad habits.of course im the bad parent cause i do all the disciplining.

I guess im just fed up with everything i i love her but her attitudes making it very hard to.shes manipulative and so huffy. 

Help ☹️

Tiredmomma29's picture

Side note.partner has done more since the lockdown and im working but wont gwake up with kids to give me a lie in one day.he never has i actually requested one for my birthday as a treat.

SteppedOut's picture

Yep. OP, it sounds like you would be better off single. Your partner is not going to change. 

Tiredmomma29's picture

He unfortunately has most things in his name and i would be lost without the income. He said hed never leave the house even though its it my name. I just envision a whole lot of hassle from him if we were too split.sorry just wanted a rant and feel better knowing its not just me that thinks he could be doing more.