I'm so angry right now I can barely type. If my parents weren't here I would have walked out. So it turns out, brat skid is staying for an extra 2 days...you know how I found out? I wasn't told or even consulted. I only found out because I made a point of asking DH this morning how long she was staying. I'm sick and tired of being disregarded in my own fucking home. I'm sick of being treated like I'm just along for the ride. My parents are upset too; they came to see me and their grandson and spend some time as a family. They didn't sign up for most of their visit being monopolised by BM drama and the brat. All of us are now sat in the living room with the tv on. Nobody talking to eachother, with tension so palpable you could cut it with a knife.

Every time brat is here she creates such an atmosphere, even apart from her behaviour. I'm so upset. I've waited nearly 3 months to see my parents and it's all ruined. I could cry. She's been so rude to my parents this morning and DH hasn't said a fucking word. Brat hasn't even acknowledged my mother's existence, and my Dad got a sullen grunt when he said hello to her. She's been foul the whole time she's stayed here so far (as usual), and no discipline has been dished out, even for the few things DH notices. I thought I'd finally got through to him, but he's in so much denial and is scared to discipline her. So because I've told him my thoughts on this, and the fact she's here for 2 days with no discussion, I'm getting the silent treatment. I'm so close to just ending things. I'm so stressed all the time I'm going to end up in an early grave; I love my husband to the end of the earth, and when brat isn't around, things are amazing. I thought that 1 day a week was a small sacrifice for our marriage, but I just can't take it any more. I just want to pack my things and our son's things, and follow my parents back home when they leave.