OK, previously I wrote about how SD15 was trying to force interaction with myself and my 2 kids because I disengaged and kept my kids away from her by the kids choice.  I am totally convinved that there are some major psychological issues going on in her head.  Many of you told me to not walk but run away.  I also talked about how SD was sitting outside my house watching my front door and parking apace.  Well, that was finally put to an end because my SO finally put his foot down and stopped her.

A new complication has arose that I worry about now.  My DS15 is in the school marching band with a very good small group of friends.  SD has decided to join the marching band after the end of the footbal season.  SD has been transfered to the same homeroom class as my son because all marching band students are in the same homeroom due to the marching band activities and the teacher being the marching band director.  SD was not interested in joining a single school activity and has refused any involvement in any school events.  SD claims to have social anxiety and PTSD that prevents her from being around a large group of people without extreme anxiety attacks and prevents her from being able to be in an enclosed area with a group of people.

SD has been persistently trying to gain the attention of myself and my 2 children.  She has failed no matter what exteremes she has go to.  SD knows DS is in the marching band and has spent time during school hours trying to locate my children in the high school and failed to gain their attention when she has located them.  SD continues to go around lying to other people at the school, for example she told people that my kids were her sister and brother and that her father and I were already married and the newest one that I am male while her father is female (total switch because I am female and he is male).  SD has gained the reputation of being two-faced and lying.  I feel this is an attept by SD to force interaction between her and my son through manipulation.  I know she does not want to give up her entire weekend every week for 3 months to the activity.  I know she does not have transportation to and from the band activities.I know that BM will cause all sorts of drama over not seeing SD durng those 3 months (BM and her husband do not drive or own a vehicle).  I will not be transportation for SD in any way shape or form, even when I pick up my own son. No one asked me if I was willing to help and assumptions are not something I go along with.

I do not understand what SD is trying to prove.  The only reason I can see her even trying this activity is to force my son to interact with her.  I am so tired of her manipulation of her parents and self-centered goal of being the center of all attention at all times.  I'm very worried about my son being harrassed and stalked right ow.  SD has also been known to accuse boys of "forcing" her to engage in sexual activities if she does not get what she wants from them.  I have instructed my son to ignore her and never be alone with her.  I do fear for my son's saftey and well being at this point.