When in doubt---DO NOTHING. That means DO NOT MOVE IN.
Look at everything clearly and NOT with day dreams..ohhhh if I move in it will be better with time. OHhhhhh the sex is soooooooooooooooo great and I know everything will be ok.
He is amazingggggggggggggggggggggggggggggggggggggggggggggggggggggggggggggggggg LOL
Well we don’t HAVE to do it immediately. However I pay a lot in rent for a house I no longer reside in basically as I stay at his house every night. So we figured to set ourselves up to buy a new house it might be smart to make it official so I can put my rent $$$ towards our savings. We both just feel we’ve waited so long to find each other we want to start our life together ASAP...
I know all too well how you can meet someone online and everything seems awesome! Until you meet in person AND learn firsthand what they are really like.
This child will always come first, you are only needed for a babysitter who he has sex with.
You keep getting the same advice, He will always put his DD above your relationship. In stead of parenting his DD he gives in to her. This will never change. You will be the third wheel. Only doing what his DD wants, as she gets older it’s only going to get worst. You will be paying for this side show.
I would have reservations
I would have reservations about that, too, even without your backstory!
Same.
Same.
Here's the backstory:
Here's the backstory:
https://www.steptalk.org/forum/parenting/bio-child-free-zone/help-x-256954
And, NO, she definitely should NOT move in!
When in doubt---DO NOTHING.
When in doubt---DO NOTHING. That means DO NOT MOVE IN.
Look at everything clearly and NOT with day dreams..ohhhh if I move in it will be better with time. OHhhhhh the sex is soooooooooooooooo great and I know everything will be ok.
He is amazingggggggggggggggggggggggggggggggggggggggggggggggggggggggggggggggggg LOL
haha... yeah... 5 year old..
haha... yeah... 5 year old.. lol.
That can definitely be a challenge and it is not a step to be taken lightly.
WHY do you have to do that now?
Well we don’t HAVE to do it
Well we don’t HAVE to do it immediately. However I pay a lot in rent for a house I no longer reside in basically as I stay at his house every night. So we figured to set ourselves up to buy a new house it might be smart to make it official so I can put my rent $$$ towards our savings. We both just feel we’ve waited so long to find each other we want to start our life together ASAP...
But, you barely know each
But, you barely know each other.
Haha sorry forgot to mention
Haha sorry forgot to mention we met online a year and a half before we got together
Oh, you met online, okay.
Oh, you met online, okay. Sorry, but you still don't know him. I know you THINK that you do....
I know all too well how you
I know all too well how you can meet someone online and everything seems awesome! Until you meet in person AND learn firsthand what they are really like.
No
This child will always come first, you are only needed for a babysitter who he has sex with.
You keep getting the same advice, He will always put his DD above your relationship. In stead of parenting his DD he gives in to her. This will never change. You will be the third wheel. Only doing what his DD wants, as she gets older it’s only going to get worst. You will be paying for this side show.
This has so many red flags
This has so many red flags that it could be the Chinese border.
Please open your eyes.