This is what happens when DH (and I) step out of the situation:

• SS22 missed the ordering deadline and can't order graduation announcements.
• Don't know if SS22 will have a cap and gown. When I explained to SS22 he probably should inquire at the campus bookstore as to when they will be measuring for caps and gowns SS22 had a look of shock and confusion. SS22 said he thinks you just pick them up next week without being measured. This coming from a a 6 foot 5 inch man-child.
• BM is hosting a graduation party for SS22. DH and I decided to pay half for the party at BMs and not bother having a seperate one. 
• When Paternal GM asked SS22 what he wanted for graduation DH blurted out, "Rent Money! First, last months and security deposit!" This is where we're at. Launch SS22, launch.

BettyRay