What A nightmare!
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I moved all my things out the other day, he trashed my stuff and threw it all in the second bedroom. Also he had his son pee on my sons mattress. It just wasn't necessary. When we were together I was good loyal girlfriend. I did everything for him. Gave him free daycare and cooked for him. He is being just an awful person. Would accuse me all the time of cheating and talking to people. He just was not man enough to admit he was talking and seeing someone else and used me to get an apartment. He did not have to have him or his son pee on my sons bed!
Sounds like you dodged a
Sounds like you dodged a giant bullet. Get out and go no contact.
tog redux
I didn't want to move in with him to begin with. I had a very bad feeling. I had a feeling he was cheating on me but didn't have any proof. I had a feeling because he always was accusing me, and usually it is always the accuser.And I moved out not that long ago and he already is dating and looking, and has a new gf, but yet I was the cheater!!!
Trust Your Gut
I am so sorry this happened to you! What a major *sshole and good for you for getting GONE from that nightmare!
In the future, you need to listen to that gut feeling. It's correct!
Tog is right about dodging
Tog is right about dodging that bullet, but it did graze you. Next time, don't shack up until you know the guy isn't an asshole. Clearly, you moved too fast on this one, but I'm glad you shed that dead weight. You can do better!
marblefawn
Oh I did learn my lesson. I will not move in with someone who is constantly accusing me. I believe he just used me until I helped him get an apartment, then when he didn't need me, he moved right on to the next but yet I was the cheater.
It’s better to spend some money
New mattress, New Stuff. Then being stuck this AO. Money well spent
Saynoskidschitchat
Yes he is a pos. I did not deserve how he treated me because I went to a wedding with one of my best friends and took a picture. Thats not cheating. Having friends of the opposite gender is not cheating. I have never cheated on anyone. I have been cheated on in the past so I believe if your unhappy in a relationship then leave, don't cheat.