Is it normal for an 12 yr old to be Tired all the time
SS just turned 12 and for the last year(?) complains he’s Tired. Now I will say he’s the sickliness kid I’ve seen. Meaning he seems to get colds one after another. He seems like he’s always Coughing,runny nose stuffy head crap. I will say he’s a gross nasty little thing who always has his finger in his nose to mouth and never washes his hands. So this could be why he’s sick all the time. He’s not sick enough to miss school just something you would take notice of. Just your basic cold. He stays up late on the weekends with his older brother but can sleep in the morning as long as he would like. He’s not what I would Consider a busy kid. He does not play any sports/Activities and we are a low key family that does not have a ton of things going on that we are dragging him to. He basically comes home from school and that’s it. He’s thin and I would Consider him VERY hyper but does not have the Stamina of other kids his age. He will run through the house screaming but any long distance activity wears him out. We have gone hiking a few times(low key and flat)and he hates it. Complains he’s tired. When he gets up in the morning or when we pick him up from school when asked how he is doing he will say a lot good but Tired. Is this normal because he’s growing?
He could have allergies that
He could have allergies that mimic cold symptoms. And he's tired because he lives a sedentary life.
Pretty common at that age.
Pretty common at that age. Teenagers start growing so fast that it truly exhausts their body. I would get him a checkup just to be sure all is going well but it is pretty common and will likely last through high school. I remember I could sleep through a day easily, SS can go until 2 pm if he was allowed. We do let him sleep more than we would but at some point get him up to accomplish something on the weekends. Make sure he is eating enough and food that is healthy and gives him needed energy. No skipping breakfast and no sugar filled breakfasts. But anyway, So normal, his body is working overtime right now. Almost like when you are pregnant and so tired becuase your body is running a marathon all day.
Has he been to the doctor?
Has he been to the doctor? Could be thyroid issues.
I came to say this, I second
I came to say this, I second this theory.
You (dh) might have to specifically ask to get it tested as it is non-standard.
Hmmm could be Allergies BUT
would Allergies come and go? I know I have Seasonal Allergies and once they start in the spring they don’t Ease up till fall. SS can go a week or more and be fine but Bam sick again. I always thought if you have Allergies they don’t get better till whatever is causing them goes away. Am I correct to think this?
It could also be anemia.
It could also be anemia. Does he eat red meat? I won't ask about other iron containing foods since my boys are evidently the weirdest teens in the world who enjoy beans and leafy greens LOL.
I never thought of that!
While most preteen boys would eat you out of house and home SS has ALWAYS been a picky eater. Does not like most meats. Won’t even eat turkey on Thanksgiving. Vegetables? Forget it and very limited fruits. Pizza will only eat plain Cheese. He will eat a hamburger if we go out and maybe a hot dog once in a blue moon. Hamburg is about the only meat he will eat on a regular base. Because of his Pickiness the Dr has had him taking Pediasure since he’s been like five or six. Now it comes down to both BM and DH Catering to him and not making him eat the foods he should but that’s non of my Business.
With his piss poor diet, he
With his piss poor diet, he definitely could have anemia - in addition to other issues.
While it is decent of you to "care" about ss "tired and sick all the time" issue, are dh or bm concerned? Will either of them DO anything if you voice concerns about possible issues? Or will you get the "there is nothing wrong with my son" (TM) line of bull?
You are describing my teenage
You are describing my teenage SD, exactly. She was just diagnosed as low iron anemia.....BUT...BUT...BUT. She does NOTHING. She eats NOTHING but french fries and drinks sweet tea and the occasional chicken nugget. Her and her sister are the sickliest kids I have ever seen in my life. They stay up all night and sleep until 2 pm...miss school non stop and take LOADS of prescription medication. SD is on week THREE of not going to school due to this "anemia" but she goes to the mall with her BM, runs around my house like a lunatic, so I am not seeing the "sickness".
I'm not saying her anemia isn't valid, but the poor diet and doing nothing all the time....is why she is tired. It is NOT normal, AT ALL! My DH just goes with it.......so bizarre.
Both my SD's are clearly and visably unhealthy....literally dark circles under their eyes, pail, tired, very very thin....BM and DH don't even notice. All they do is shove fries and sugar down their throats with a HUGE side of weekly antibiotics.
Gah. Is it difficult to
Gah. Is it difficult to respect him when he is such a crappy parent?
At times yes. Another GUILTY
At times yes. Another GUILTY DADDY issue, too afraid confront BM (who has the kids most of the time) and too guilty to say a word to the kids about their horrible eating habits.
We share an almost 1 year old baby, and I have already layed down the LAW and said that our child will NEVER be like his older kids. Never ever will it fly. I had to have coming to Jesus with DH's mom (major contributer to his kids bad eating habits) because she gave my 11 month old a F&&&&ING Capri Sun.....I wanted to choke her out. I'm sure I've offended my DH as I have made it crystal clear that our shared child will be raised NOTHING like his older two. I've got older kids myself.......so baby isn't my first rodeo. LOL
I totally feel you.
I totally feel you.
My formerMIL tried giving my 4mo a taste of her sweet tea! ARE YOU CRAZY. But then again, "couldn't believe I was still breastfeeding". Yes, sweet tea is so much better than breast milk for a FOUR MONTH OLD BABY!
I also offended my formerSO when saying our child would not be raised like his kids. I'm not sure why, because he complained about how his ex raised/was raising them...so she is bad but might as well continue? Made no damn sense.
What did the doctor say?
What did the doctor say?
Bio parents DID make an appointment, right?
The picky eater has been brought up
many times. The fact SS is 12 but fits in size 7/8 jeans and the height of most 9 yr olds one can’t not notice. The Pediatrician solution Was the Pediasure. God forbid the Parents just put their foot down and told the brat you sit at the table till you finish your dinner and be the end of it. Nope let’s pump a Artificial nutrient in him since he likes it. The tiredness is something DH has not really noticed and we try and avoid talking to BM as well she’s a bitch. Since BM is a Helicopter hypochondriac type mother I’m sure if I noticed it she did. She will some also somehow Blaim us for the problem