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Every other weekend.

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Submitted by diamonds-and-lace on Fri, 03/15/2019 - 3:09pm

It's hard to watch this child turn into the little butterfly she is when we only see her every other weekend. I wish the visitation schedule was different. I wish BM hadn't moved so far from FH when they first divorced. It's like every time we get her she's a different person. 

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Submitted by Harry on Fri, 03/15/2019 - 4:43pm

Move closer to SD.  That way you cab see her more. 

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Submitted by diamonds-and-lace on Fri, 03/15/2019 - 5:29pm

I have a career that I can't make that commute for daily (that would be 4 hours of car time a day). My job is not something I can just move that easily. FH could, but he'd be going without me. It's just an unfortunate situation. They lived in this general area when they were married and had met here prior to that. When they divorced, he moved in with his parents temporarily and she did the same, but her mom is 2 hours south. His parents live in the area they had lived. 

I wish it were an option, but nope. It would literally mean quitting my job and trying to get very specifically skilled employment there in a position where there are only infrequent job openings.