Had a birthday party for the grandbaby. All was well except BM as usual loud and the center of attention in my opinion being obnoxious as usual in the middle of the living room loud mouth and hollering orders everyone was fine with it but she has always loved being noticed...she went and bought an entire new outfit, shoes, nails and hair done for a 2 year old's party as we all were told to dress casual. As the party went on she was tracking my DH every move for instance he sits on the couch she sits literally in the floor in front of him WTH then he moves to the kitchen to stand and she goes and sits directly behind him. He then moves sits in the floor by me to put toys together and she again goes and sits in front of him taking pictures having it look like she is taking pictures of the grand baby. We are used to her being a creeper and always taking pictures of him anywhere we are and she is. The kids leaked out she still makes " family" albums of them. I was done with it after 2 hours and was ready to go. Any suggestions what I could say or do when she acts this way without causing an unnessary scene since we only have to deal with her for grandbabies birthdays these days??