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LOL Stupid BM!!!

tankh21's picture

So, BM decides to text my DH and ask what time she can pick up the skids tomorrow?!  There was no discussion that she would be even be picking up the skids since per the CO DH has them until December 28th.  I guess her self righteous *** just expects it since he used to let her run all over him before I came along.  #1. She isn't allowed at our house for numerous of reasons. #2. We have plans all day long!  #3. She is just playing a game because it's fun for her.  She pretends that she doesn't know what the CO says but, when it comes to what she wants and anything she can do to make our lives miserable she will do for instance her texting that crap about picking up the skids on DH's visitation time?  I don't have time for this crap so I am just going to ignore it!  I told DH if he wants to let BM have the skids that is up to him but I am not rearranging my plans so he can meet up with BM somewhere to drop off the skids to her.  If the harpy shows up at our house she will be asked to leave.

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Thumper's picture

My guess is she pretends to forget what the co reads. In hope everyone scrambles and shakes because she is trying to screw UP your Christmas Plans.

Years ago it would have been a 7.5 earthquake IF we ever got a call like this. BM screaming on the phone at my dh. BETTER let me talk to my kids buddy they are mine starting tonight since is Christmas EVE you know Santa only comes to my house BUDDYYYYYY. Who the heck is buddy?

Now---knowing NOW what I wish I knew then. Never respond to such rubbish.

Sorry you and dh are put thru such hell OP.  I remember it well.

Ginger_SM's picture

We are dealing with the same crap with the BM. She always manipulates it to her benefit and to, I feel, minimize my husbands already minimal time. 

And literally every time I want to say, dont you have the same CO we do? 

I would definitely take a picture of where it is outlined in the CO and leave it at that. 

Winterglow's picture

I would photocopy the CO and annotate it clearly in simple English (subject verb object, no word with more than 3 syllables...) and FRAME it. Then send it to her as a NY gift.