So I guess 2 weeks is the limit as I mentioned in my last blog. The gloves are coming right off once my bio's visit is ended, I want to limit as much of the negativity of skid situation while he is here. 

I ended up converting my office into a spare room (selling my desk, office chair and mid century modern couch/futon). Bought a new bed and bedframe and it looks great. I spoke to my son the day he was flying out to find out if its ok that he is upstairs (since the downstairs spare room occupied by skid is full of the furniture that I bought my son) and of course he says he does not care as long as there is a place for him to sleep and he was just excited to come out here. 

I hate to ask things of my own kid sometimes because even if it did not sit well with him you would never know because he is so easy going. But I do think he meant it. 

Part of me hates letting skid stay in that room after his poor behavior and DH trying to wiggle out of what was agreed upon. However I think it would be worse for skid to be upstairs in my space especially since we are no longer talking. 

I texted skid to let him know that he will not be moving bedrooms but I wasn't all sweet about it. My text read: "I have spoken to Bio and asked if he minded  where is slept. He said he does not care as long as he has a place to sleep, but its not like he would ever tell me differently since he is so good natured. "

That text made the pout go up a couple more notches. He never responded to me and a few mintues later I could here him leave slam the door loudly and get into his car and light up the tires as he sped off. We have no uttered one word to each other since and I am no longer taking skid's shit.

After I texted skid he sent a text to DH with a screen shot of my text, which when DH came home I told him about it anyways. DH said that skid apologized (via text to DH) for him saying anything Friday night and that he should just go to his mom's, to which said no we have room and its fine. Told skid that I want Bio to be comforatble on his visit since he was not been home in a year. skid tells DH I will move rooms, thats ok, I insist. - He also asked in the text to DH if I was saying that he (skid) was not good natured. DH did not answer that to him, because he even knows that his skid is not good natured or easy going. Which is just bs because skid would be totally passive agressive about it by that point. I told DH that skid did not apologize to me. 

I thought about a Airbnb however my son is a chef working on his Bachelor of Hospitality Management degree and I cook too, and we end up cooking together. Way to much work to pack my whole kitchen to an Airbnb. Last night we made an amazing meal and skid did not want to be around us so he left. That was perfect. 

DH left for work out of town for the next 2 days. This should be interesting. But I will fill my time with my son and doing stuff together and ignore my asshole skid. DH is back to being an ostrich.