I would love to actually do it but DH would kill me.  I will just have to fantasize.  LOL  The skids used to "give" me good gifts when they were young because DH went with them and he supervised and purchased.  Now that they are chronological adults, some of the "gifts" I have received are clear slaps in the face.  Think XXL sweatpants from K-mart when I am a size small.  Essentially the same thing that your SM did to you.  And BTW - sorry that she did that to you.  That is sad.  There are so many of us on here that try so hard for YEARS and would walk over broken glass if the skids would actually give us a chance to be part of a functioning family.  But no matter how rude they are to us, we restrain ourself until they are well into adulthood.  It sucks to hear about a SM being deliberately mean to someone when they are a kid.