BM1 has been quiet for the last 5 months. Not a word from her. Suddenly she FB messages me (We aren't friends but you can still message). So here goes:

BM1: Please give me SS's #, I have been trying to reach DH several times. ** Note, DH was working last night until 1am. I didn't even talk to him yesterday.**

Me: I will pass your request to DH.  SS18's number hasn't changed in 5 years though, I know we have given it to you in the past **Note, I know I shouldn't have said it, but I feel froggy again today**

BM1: It doesn't matter how many times I ask for it, I am his mother. Give me his number  **Note, that is cute but she hasn't had more than supervised visitation for 2 hours a month since he was 1 year old. She can't stay sober or out of jail. She has 7 other kids and custody of none. SS18 is the oldest**

Me: Like I said, I have passed this along. It is up to SS18's father on what to do with the information, it isn't my place.

BM2: I will have a welfare check done! **note, she doesn't know where we live, so oookkay

Me: You are welcome to do a welfare check if you desire. It isn't my place to do anything more than give his father the info.

BM2: SS18 is a grown man, just give me his number

Me: Just out of curiosity, if you talk to him are you going to explain why you missed graduation? **Note, she was in jail. Wreckless driving, DWI, Stolen license plates, No drivers license, Assault of an officer and attempted escape from custody- BM's step mom filled us in on it all"

BM1: I HAD STREP THROAT- he knows this.

Me: OOkkayy... Sure thing

BM1: And since he is a grown man it is about time I tell him the truth about his father raping me! **Note, Dh was 18, BM was 16. One night, graduation party, 2 weeks from leaving for the Navy-- too much beer and a girl from the next town over who said she was 17. -- This is not rape. Plus they got married- so who marries their rapist! SM also said that BM1 was the one who pushed to get married!**

-- She then blocked me. LOL 

I texted BM's SM and asked if she was sober before we gave SS18 the info. She said not to give it to him and that she was getting ready for trial for all the charges above. SM said she can see that SS18 is thriving and doing great and he doesn't need her in his life. She also said that BM no longer even has supervised visitation of the 4 kids that live with SM.

You can't make this stuff up!