DH told me last Wednesday night that he was going to pick up SD20 where she is staying at a friends while "home" for the summer so she could go turkey hunting with him the next morning.  He said she would be sleeping on the bed in his hunting room in the basement.  I wasn't happy about it, but told him whatever, she just better not touch anything of mine while at the house. Off he went to get her around 10 pm.  I went to bed.  I leave to go to work the next morning, and DH is not hunting.  I asked him what was up?  He said he went out, but had a headache and came back home.  Later in the day he told me that after he got SD all the way to our house (about a 40 minute round trip) she realized that she didn't bring her hunting lisence with her.  What the actual fuck????  The whole fucking reason she was supposedly coming was to go hunting, so how could she "forget" her lisence???  So DH drove all the back to friends house and got it for her.  WTF again??  Then he tells me he didn't even bother waking her up to go hunting???? And then in the next breath started asking me about giving her our extra car.   Apparently she was whining to DH that she really needs a car to drive, because when she has a day off, but her friend has to work, she is just sooooo bored and can't go anywhere.  Whatever.  So THAT was obviosuly the ulterior motive to her coming to go "hunting"  They worked on getting her insurance (I refused to put her on our policy and refused to let her drive our car around like last summer without being on SOMEONE's policy) They went to the DMV, got everything transferred to her and off she went.  DH told me that he told her she needs to thank me since I owned half of that car and helped put money into repairs for it over the years.  Of course I've heard not a fucking peep.  She has no problem sending me nasty messages, but her entitled, spoiled, asshole self can't say "thank you". 

So last night, DH tells me around 9 pm, that he has to run to SD's friend's house (again 40 minute round trip) to give her a gun because she was going to hunting with some old timer at the sporting good store she works at in the morning. I said whatever and went to bed.  This morning when I was getting ready to leave for work, I heard DH's phone going off and realized that he left it at the house.  BS8 looked at it and said it was SD and it was like the 5th time she'd called.  So I looked thinking maybe there was some emergency??  Oh no, just fucking SD "emergency" nonsense.... Come to find out  by reading through the text messages, AFTER DH went and dropped of the stupid gun for her last night, she text him and said that she must have left her hunting lisence in his car and she was going to need it for morning.  I'm guessing from the messages that he ran back out at 1 a.m. to get it to her.  WTF????  Then apparently the old timer who was supposedly taking her never called (probably because he never said he would take her, she just assumed or some such SD nonsense) Her last message to DH was that she was "coming up to the house"  I made certain before I left that every door was locked, every window was closed, and that there was no spare key outside.  Oh and I also hid the towels in the main bathroom in case DH comes home and she ends up staying during the day.  Last time she was there she dirtied 3 fucking towels.. that of course I had to hunt down and wash. I know DH was up the road hunting with a friend of ours and I hoping he didn't come home anytime soon. 

I seriously couldn't dislike SD more than I do.  I don't understand why DH keeps enabling her nonense.  I know I shouldn't care because it really doesn't affect me, but it's just irritating, especially when DH bitches at BS8 about 2 pairs of shoes by the door not being placed perfectly on the rack.    GRRRRR