If you read my last blog, I stated that BM expected DH to pick up SD, age 15,  from her neices houses about 4 hours away over the weekend.  She is there because I work from home, DH is working and no one locally will watch SD because of Sd's behavior.   She basically just told DH to pick her up just before she boarded the cruise ship.

Last night, BM sent DH an email from the cruise ship telling DH to pick up SD on Friday because it will be snowing this weekend.  DH sends her an email back telling her NO.  We are not sure she even got it but DH said that BM could just pick her up on Monday when she gets back.  Of course, he added a lot more colorful language.

I am so proud of DH for standing up for himself.  It has been a long process.

I know BM doesn't like me at all.  She has told DH that he needs to get his B%^lls back from me.    DH would always jump and do whatever she wanted until we married.  Now, everything is planned out. 

I just do not understand why this woman can not just ASK if DH can do something for her and also ask in advance.  

She goes on this yearly cruise with her sister.  Everyone is suppose to jump and bend over backwards for her because she NEEDS this cruise.  She NEEDS to be away from SD.  She NEEDS a break from the rest of the world.  This summer, she will be planning a vist somewhere out of the country with her sister.  She will be on vacation for about 2 weeks.  She will NEED everyone to jump for her again.  DH doesn't do that anymore and I am so proud of him.