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Submitted by mamabear3 on Wed, 03/14/2018 - 5:27pm

we went to the custody hearing today. She didn’t show up since she’s obviously in rehab. The lawyer made sure dh told what day she went into rehab since it was after the 30 days were up. 

Gave the judge everything we had on her. And DH now has full custody and got awarded the right to change ss last name to his. 

BM found out and she is absolutely livid. She’s already saying that she’s going to get it overturned. But the judge in that county doesn’t change custody lightly so there is no way she will be able to. Especially since me and DH are solid. 

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Submitted by I love dogs on Wed, 03/14/2018 - 8:38pm

Happy for the 3 of you!

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Submitted by hereiam on Thu, 03/15/2018 - 7:28am

She is so livid...but it didn't mean enough to her to keep her butt straight for her kid in the first place.

SS has a much better chance at a good, happy life, now.

I don't get these women. They live their lives so selfishly, doing whatever and whoever they want. Then, when they lose custody of their kids, they are mad, hurt, don't understand how anyone could do this to them, they are such good moms. Really?

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Submitted by mamabear3 on Thu, 03/15/2018 - 8:19am

Thanks we are estatic about the judgement.  Now we can work on getting him into therapy and hopefully increase his vocabulary more.

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Submitted by Thumper on Thu, 03/15/2018 - 10:35am

Happy to hear this news.

Was bm given any visitation? Granted she is currently in rehab but do not be surprised if she bails on that now that the hearing is over and she didnt win this round. I have seen it happen before.

DO not underestimate her, ok?

Be  vigilant IF visitation involved someone in her family to supervise those visits.

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Submitted by mamabear3 on Thu, 03/15/2018 - 4:03pm

That's one of the items the judge put in himself.  He said it's at DH discretion if he allows her to see him.  If she wants visitation she will have to go back through the courts to set it up.  

I'm pretty sure he did this because we had a text of her saying she was going to take SS and run and DH would never find her.