Seems lately calls to the house by people looking for BM have increased, even stranger is they are calling her by her old name...FDH's last name.

I get that I live in a house once occupied by BM when she was married to FDH - but she moved out over 3 years ago and upon the divorce she changed her name back to her maiden name (it says in the divorce that she changed it) and has since gotten married and changed it again.

It has always bothered me that BM still uses her old email address which has FDH's last name but now I am starting to wonder if BM is living a secret double life and still using her old name for stuff.

for example...

When we got home Sunday there was a message from a Student Exchange Program looking for BM (Her first name FDH's last name). It's odd because FDH said that while they had talked about getting a foreign exchange student (he had one when he was in HS) they had agreed to wait until the sKids where in HS (currently 5 and 7) and they had not contacted any one about doing it as far as he knew. A little concerned but he knew calling BM would be pointless and probably more confusing so he called the lady back instead. He told her, his name and that he was BM's ex-husband. Then told her that BM doesn't live at this number and hasn't for 3 years but if she wanted he could give her, BM's new name and number. The lady seemed puzzled and said "Oh I guess it's been awhile since we talked to her".

Then earlier in the week some one called for BM (just asked for her my first name) and I told them she didn't live here any more... after a pause they asked if I had her new number.

And a couple weeks ago there was another message on our machine from the shipping department at Socially Connect looking for BM (her first name and FDH's last name) We just deleted that one but maybe we should have called them back as well.

I am just a little concerned as to what is going on - is it normal to still get these phone calls after 3 years?