So, guess what...SS15 is going back to live with his mother two states away today!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! I am so happy. My life can get back to normal again. If you read my previous blogs I was trying to get DH to come up with a plan if he wanted SS15 to live with us to make it work. He obviously couldn't come up with anything and talked with BM and decided that it would be best for SS15 to go back and live with BM since she can be home to supervise him and there he has his own room and own space, etc. But I made sure to tell DH, make sure this is what YOU want, because I am not going to be blamed for this the rest of our lives and have you resent me for it (because he kept saying I got what I wanted and he didn't want him to go back). So I said if you want him to stay let us sit down and work out the finances, maybe go to family counseling or something, because I will not have the blame for this fall on my shoulders. I rather try and work something out then have this ruin our marriage, I told him I was always willing to compromise if he would show me a plan. But he still said no I think it is best he goes back, I won't blame you.

Anyway, that is the good news...he is going back today, and ILs are taking him back for some reason. But ILs are all blaming me for him going back. That haven't said anything to my face yet, but DH told me they have been talking behind my back. SIL (who is not even DH's sister but DH's brother's wife), is a BITCH, and already posted some passive aggresive things geared toward me on FB.

Then I guess DH told ILs that one of the reasons SS is going back is because he can't financially support him right now since he is in school (I said in other blogs how BM wouldn't let him have any clothes from her house so bascially DH would have to buy him a whole new wardrobe and BM said she wouldn't give DH child support and how I already pay all the bills in the home). Anyway ILs think I should be financially supporting SS15 too!!! I am pissed. They had the audacity to say to DH that I go on all these vacations but we can't financilly support SS. I am sorry but SS15 is NOT my financial responsibility. That is between DH and BM. I NEVER asked DH once for ANYTHING financially for my son. I buy my son everything he needs, clothes, school supplies, sports registrations, food, trips, etc. This all comes from MY money I work hard to earn and the CS I get from my ex. DH has never had to give me a dime to support my own son, so why should I have to support his? What I do with MY MONEY is NO ONE else's business. I am so pissed right now!!!