DH and MIL got into it over me and SS. DH works Monday thru Saturday and then works a second job so I don't have to work especially right now with me being pregnant and well MIL and DH got into it because they talked about BM² offering to let SS stay with us for 2 weeks and DH said no it wouldn't be fair because he is never home except on Sundays and that it wouldn't be fair to me because I struggle with the 2 we already have right now because I'm pregnant and he thinks adding SS would only stress me out more. Plus we (DH and i) don't really know the kid because for the last 5 years BM² has kept home hidden from us by constantly moving and not updating her info with the attorney general's office. I also don't think it would be smart to have him for 2 weeks straight because BM² given her track record would want my phone number and the last time she had it would send ugly text messages to me and I would get restricted phone calls and if I answered nobody would speak up. I understand that MIL would actually want us to keep SS because she knows that SS would be safer with us than BM² given the fact that she is verbally abusive to SS and that if it were up to MIL we would have custody of SS and BM² would be the one having to get visitation but that is not the reality. MIL told DH I'm just as responsible for SS as he is because we are married and DH doesn't see it that way because he is trying to protect me and BM² is the type of woman who will call the police saying I abused SS even though I wouldn't.