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Submitted by Vana240 on Sat, 07/07/2012 - 9:31pm

well my fiance asked me to marry him on valentines day! i love him soo much we both have full custody of our girls. mine is 6 and his is 13. our only arguements are over the kids not getting along or his daughter is very controling and takes advantage of everyone to get what she wants. so we faught then he said he cant keep doing this and i said ok so then maybe we should just no be together and he agreed. i gave him back the ring and he texted me saying he would be out in a few weeks. please help i cant loose him were perfect. he is my other half, we complete eachother.

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Submitted by Buzybee82 on Sun, 07/08/2012 - 1:47am

have you been married before? has he? like previous poster said marriage is hard, takes tons of work on both parts, and there's no quitting... if you want it to last. i don't think playing games (hanging up first, acting like you don't care etc) is the best way to go. if you truly love him let him know, don't beg him to stay though. if he really wants out, then he wouldn't be someone you want to be married to anyways, right?!

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Submitted by stepmisery on Sun, 07/08/2012 - 5:07am

You seem upset at the end of the relationship, that's very normal. The harder you to try to grip this guy and hold on to him, the more he will want to get away.

I know this will sound a bit strange, but your post immediately called to mind Kate Middleton. I remember reading that there came a point where she wanted a commitment and Prince William was not ready to give that to her. They broke up. I think it was for a period of six months, Kate was seen around town, she attended dances and events and whatever else people in her social position do. She did not sit home and weep and plot how to chase William and win him back. She went out and lived her life, and William saw she was quite capable of being without him and he went back to her, on her terms.

Every checkout line, it seems I am looking at their picture and they seem so happy together.

If you ever do reconcile with this man, please remember, there is a reason why you broke up. That reason must be addressed and solved or you will simply end up breaking up again. Do not get married until the problem can be resolved.