He's gone to pick up SD14 and drop by store on the way to bring butter to his XW. We've just had a scrap!

I know I shouldn't be mad but I'm fuming! He is on his way to his x's to pick up his daughter to take her to dinner. He x asked him to stop in at a store and grab her some butter for recipe she is making.

This from the woman who told him 3 months ago that she was 'done!' with him and he should never call her about their daughter again, only communicate by email!

I flipped! He says I'm just being jealous.

I HATE this situation.

Am I wrong?

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uuuuuuuuuuuuuhhhhhhhhhhhhh

uuuuuuuuuuuuuhhhhhhhhhhhhh no, you are not wrong.

I would be livid. Tell her to get her own damn butter.

Oh no he di'int. I am

:jawdrop:

Oh no he di'int.

I am appalled at how some of these BD's still bow to their damn baby mama. Are they scared of them?? Do they still love them?? I just don't get this!!!

I would call her. Yep. Call her. And tell her calmly that YOUR husband will not be running any errands for her ever again!!!!!

lmao sorry this sounds like

lmao sorry this sounds like something I would do to my ex...for the most part he and I are good terms but there are times I really have to lay into him for being a bone head and I have told him things like that in the heat of a conversation, but would still ask him to get me butter...but I would also send home what ever I made with the kids the next day enough for him and his "girlfriend" even though i cant stand her..(we live about 9 blocks away)

it depends on whether the relationship is heated like that all the time or just on occasion!

Depends. Is it really just a

Depends. Is it really just a matter of convenience since he is going to that house anyway? Or is it a long series of things where she's trying to yank his chain, trying to impress him, trying to get him to see them as a family or couple? Does she overly rely on him to help her out?

On the surface it shouldn't be a big deal if it's a one time thing and he is already going over there. But under the surface, what does it mean?

It is always my FDH who does

It is always my FDH who does the compromising. He does ALL the picking up and dropping off. He pays his CS and extras whenever asked to do so. He has been treated - in my opinion - like garbage. He isn't told about things like poor grades. His daughter quit regular school last semester and decided to go to 'online' school. He said he didn't agree but his opinion, per usual, was ignored. Now the online schooling has become a joke, 3 online classes total, english, humanities and a physical education component whereby they email the teacher every day to tell them what physical activity they have participated in.

He is at their beck and call when they want something but god help him if he wants something from them - not a chance! I'm just sick of it! It has honestly begun to make me lose respect for him.