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Now you want my help?!?!?!?!?!? language, sorry

young_step_mom's picture

For those of you who don't know, I live in Mexico. DH, BM and SS don't speak English. It is a requirement for students here to start taking English pretty much as soon as they start school.

Well SS is 5 and he had english hw. All he had to do was find objects that start w a specific letter (O and U) and cut them out of a magazine and paste them on a paper w the word in English. He has had to do this before and I have helped him (when he was w us). Well tonight DH goes to drop him off and BM asks if he can call me and ask me for some words that start w o and u and tell her how to spell them and what they mean so she can help SS cut them out.

I have no problem helping SS, in fact I have done it many times. However, since I met DH, BM and her family haven't stopped running their mouths about what a bitch I am and that I am a home wrecker (even though SHE had dumped DH when I met him). I haven't spoken more than 2 words w her ever. She used to deny SS from us if I was in the car during pick up (the judge finally told her to stop). She took SS from me once in the street when she ran into us. She told people that I hit SS. A co worker of mine started a nasty rumor about me and once it got to BM she spread it like nobody's business. Needless to say, she and I don't get along. So DH calls because now she wants a favor?????? FUCK NO! It may be petty and shitty and not worth fighting over and yeah I am making a mountain out of a molehill but you know what, there are a million things I can't control but THIS I can control and you can bet your ass I will never EVER ever help her skanky ass out EVER again! What a two faced bitch. I hate her and I REFUSE to lift so much as a finger to help her ass out. I wouldn't even piss on her if she were on fire! Ok maybe then I would because then I would have to have SS full time and that is probably not the best thing either. But really, it's really not that hard, open a spanish-english dictionary under o and u and look up the fucking words. Never ever ever again.

Ok I just had to get that off my chest.

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Disneyfan's picture

So the kid can't complete his homework because the adults don't get along.

This doesn't hurt BM, it hurts the child.

young_step_mom's picture

I don't think that all of the parents of the children in SS's class speak English and they manage just fine. I am sure BM can figure it out, especially since this wasn't the first time SS has had to do this assignment w BM.

stepmom22boys's picture

I don't blame you. She was just looking for a quick/easy way to finish the homework. I think it would be better for BM and SS if she pulled the dictionary out and looked up the words with him. She might even learn a little English out of the deal.