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Submitted by Lovedandlost on Wed, 03/14/2012 - 9:08pm

Anyone in a situation where your SD is running your lives already then proceeds to hurt herself and accuse you?? Any suggestions on how to make it stop? I have moved out of the family home in an attempt to allow therapy to work its magic but I am leary about this girl. How could you be that cold of a person, are you even a person?? My friends call her the demon spawn...never believed it until now. She opening tells people that she just likes to hurt people. I think she has real mental issues but our therapist says she is "strong willed". Um you don't have to live with her or the behavior...definitely not just strong will at work here...Suggestions??

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Submitted by Lovedandlost on Thu, 03/15/2012 - 7:42pm

Thanks for the advice. He has stood up to her and she hasn't been allowed back in a while while she attends therapy. I am hoping it works. He does not stand by her in that because he knows it is all lies but he stands there so naive telling me that nobody will ever believe her and that I won't be affected by those lies. I don't know if that is true or not. I am sure that her claims need to be proven but honestly I am not willing to risk my future on her senseless lies. I have a child to look after too...somethings are just not worth the fight.

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Submitted by Kes on Thu, 03/15/2012 - 3:17am

I agree with BLM. I refused to be alone with the SDs when they were younger because I was afraid they or the NPD BM would cook up something like this and ruin my life.

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Submitted by Auteur on Thu, 03/15/2012 - 11:02am

The real problem lies when biodad believes his demon spawn. And from the looks of it most do. GG told me that he believed I was "mean" to his children and THAT'S why they don't come over anymore; Never Mind the YEARS of PASing that the BM was doing.

That's why I'm exiting this year as his middle child (problem child) VD--SD13, is a real pathological liar. Even though she lied to CPS,admitted it, wasn't sorry for it in the least AND got her dad into real hot water to please the BM that *I* had to get him out of, he STILL TRUSTS HER WORD OVER MINE!!