So, DH had a hearing this morning-Adequate cause- This is just a hearing infront of a judge with DH and BM. The judge reads all the evidence and decides right then and there if DH has a good enough reason to change custody. BM didn't show. BM didn't show to her Adequate cause for her other two kids(her parents gained custody)

Anyway..DH calls and says "Hey." I'm hesistent and I say "Hey..?" Kinda weary. I hear fear in his voice, hes on the verge of crying and I'm thinking OMG SD goes back to BM.

DH says..Well...I have 20 minutes to head to the Law Library in the court house, fill out and print Motion for Child Support and Motion for default. He goes on to tell me that "Because BM didn't show today, the judge is going to SIGN THE FINAL PARENTING PLAN and Sign the Motion for Default. The judge doesn't want me missing all this work with all these court hearings, especially since the other parent obviously doesn't care enough to show up or even file a written response after [the judge] ordered it"

OMG...I can not believe it. I know BM can easily file her written (late) response and file to have the final parenting plan revoked, but BM ever getting custody of any of her children ever again is Highly unlikely.

I can't believe this is happening. After dealing with this crazed woman for 6 years, after all of the heartbreak she has caused, after all of the alienation, all of the unprovoked violence and after all of her denials of time for DH...She has blatantly given up. She has shown her true colors..She doesn't care about her children. They were just objects to her.

It's truely her loss. Yes, SD should have her bio mom in her life, but in the end..SD is much safer and better off with DH and I.

I will write an update later today