Updates..BM let SD down and also threw her kids under the bus. Godd Job, Mother of the Year!
So, BM scheduled to have a supervised visit with SD on Sunday. DH went through SD's phone late Sat. night because he noticed her texting way past our cut off time. He crawls into bed and says "She's not coming." I said who? What? Wait..BM? DH says "Yeah, I went through SD's phone because I had a feeling something wasn't right and BM isn't going to see SD tomorrow. That fucking bitch!"
BM had a minor foot surgery on Friday so I understand it would be difficult to walk around, but the place for the visits has couches and chairS to lay and sit on. BM could easily just lay back on the couch and hang out with SD with her foot propped up. SD even told her mom "Just have [your boyfriend] drive you and you can sit down the whole time while we hang out" BM said something about thats not the point blah blah.
I feel BM shouldn't have scheduled all these doctors appointments in the middle of a serious custody determination. BM is using all these doctor appointments as excuses not to file any written responses for court, she has used this foot surgery to postpone her jail sentencing too. DH's family judge has already told BM she MUST file a response, which she has not done.
I was reading the court docket for BM's sentencing trial and the state was trying to impose a no contact order for BM and her boyfriend because of their long DV history and BM actually said "Most of the problems between me and him were because of my children, but my children are no longer in the home so our problems are gone." REALLY?! YOU BLAMED YOUR KIDS FOR BEING A PSYCHOTIC ABUSER AND DRUNK?!?!
Oh, and another thing...SD's birthday was last Wed. No card in the mail, no gifts, not even a damn phone call from BM...No wait...SD called her BM at 7am that morning and the call was only 60 seconds long. No other 'birthday' calls from BM that day.
Thats awesome, BM :sick:
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Why does she even want these
Why does she even want these children in her life at all? Why not just give them up and move on?
Honestly, I don't know. I've
Honestly, I don't know. I've been wondering that for 6 years now. I don't believe BM really Wants her children, but I know she has used SD as a pawn in her sick head games with DH. She seems to really enjoy hurting DH by using SD. I can see now that BM obviously doesn't love her children.
Another poster on here told me recently that some BM's love the control. They use their children as pawns and they use their children to hurt their ex's and when they lose their children, they lose their control to hurt and manipulate our DH's, so they have nothing left. As someone once told me, they feel they can not share their childrens love, their children are either All theirs, or they have lost them completely. And this is my SD's BM exactly.
Alot of the BM we deal with
Alot of the BM we deal with or hear about on this site are not the MOTY. But they ALL think they are. Its hard for me to understand these women. I would never do my kids step or bio. the way these women do. Very Very Sad!
Yep. She is the furthest
Yep. She is the furthest thing from Mother of the Year. But she will play the role in public out on the soccer field
Like you said, they love to feel like MOTY and they honestly believe they are when really they are dead beat moms. Crazy.