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2 days of peace

daisy0202's picture

As of today my SD16 goes to her moms for 2 whole days....OMG!!!!! I am soooo excited to get some time alone with my husband. Last night we needed to talk about christmas stuff and what I have left for gifts, our open house, ect. But of course my SD is up our ass, well her dads, and is in our conversation and telling me what she thinks.... Blum 3 ..SWEETY GO BE A TEEN!!!! I finally said know what we will discuss this tomorrow Im going to do laundry....This little girl never gives us 1 minute to ourself....She is on every word. I was changing in the room my husband came in to get something and she storms in without knocking and starts a conversation with her father while I am sitting in my bra...AHHHH HELLOOOOO!!!! I was like you need to knock and Im changing....She says I have the same....My children dont even do that....Her father laughed and said i'll be out in a minute....He knew I was mad and said shes leaving for 2 days....THANK GOD!!!!! but I said that to myself. Its so sad but I actually hate my SD and I keep trying not to but keep getting a slap in the face. Yesterday I text her about 12:30 since I had to pick her up from school because she was vomting (then she ate Macdonalds) whatever...and I said How are you feeling? Got nothing back....Its like why do I bother to even talk to you...REALLY!!!!

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daysleeper's picture

After my week from hell, when SD finally left the car, I actually said "good riddance" out loud (I was alone, thank goodness!). Sometimes enough is enough. And I'm sorry, but 16 is OLD ENOUGH to know what modesty is and to respect yours. And if your DH won't set those boundaries, then you need to, because it's your body and that is just plain disrespectful.

Goincrazy40's picture

My FSkids cannot learn to knock. They burst into the bedroom all the time. In fact DSS12 had a meltdown over the weekend and said I am so mean because I yell at him for not knocking. Guess what, you are not my kids and I don't want you walking in on me while I'm changing!
I knock on their damn doors before I go into their rooms. Learn some manners.