BM has been talking to skids telling them she is going to take to Miami with her, her man and her other kids. 2 &3. Supposedly it was going to happen in February but she must.not realize that kids have to go to school. So she called.last night wanting to know their school schedule. Told them the website to.look at the hotel---yuck! BM hasn't seen her kids since for a month in July.2010 because I made them.g visit her when she lived in Illinois (our state) and I was pregnant. She keeps filling their head up with ideas of hotels, beaches and fun. I want to vomit because I had to bug her so much just to send money for school.supplies. I understand why she is trying to so hard to be MOTY. I've complied a laundry list of all her "accomplishments".
1. Left her 5 year old boy and 7 month old baby with the father.-my SO. Reason: they were breaking up and she wanted to party,go out with friends etc
2. Lived blocks away from her.kids yet saw them.only for a couple days at a time.
3. Left to go to Florida- meet.her man,got pregnant

3. Comes to our house in Chicago to visit the boys and attemtps to take them.with her back to Florida in the middle.of the night. Only ended up taking older SS. He was bounced around from house to house while there for a.month and.came.back to us.
4. Gets pregnant with baby #4.
5. The boys visit her because I made them for a one month.
6. Moves to California- lives in a grow house.
7. Doesn't send money unless bugged/harassed. Doesn't see them.for their birthdays or holidays.
**meanwhile up until a year ago this woman was claiming that the boys lived with her so she could say she was a single.mom no job etc.- scamming the system to get food stamps,housing assistance and cash. I'm going into debt buying groceries/ everyday stuff for her kids .
She has been a consistsnt seasonal parent. = she stops in their lives to be a mom when it is convenient for her schedule. My younger SS called my SO's exgf
"mom" for the 5 years they were
together. Now he calls me
mom(70%).
Yet my SS's worship this woman and don't see a bad bone in her. They are so excited to talk to her when she calls on the phone its pathetic they can't see the truth. I feel sorry for my SO to hear his boys so excited to go see the woman who basically.abandoned them and doesn't really.do anything as a parent at all while he has done everything for them and been there everyday.